Its been 5 months and can't get over her?

[xDavid96x]

Hi everyone.
Well me and my wife where together for 2 years and a half we had a child within the marriage. Me and her separated 5 months ago and she won't even talk to me or let me see my kid. The last time I talked to her she said her love die out. It hurts because a day before me and her separated she started to crying saying she always was going to love me and we where going to be together forever. What even hurts more is that she doesn't even want to let me see my kid. I just found out she filed for divorce on Friday. :( . Has anyone been though this. Will I get over her eventually even if I have a kid with her?

[JoyGirl]

Why the divorce? What exactly happened?

“ The last time I talked to her she said her love die out. It hurts because a day before me and her separated she started to crying saying she always was going to love me and we where going to be together forever.”

Either something happened, or she is bipolar af.
If you guys go through with the divorce, you can talk about when you get to see your child.

[PrettyPriya]

So very sorry to hear this. Yes, the pain will be less and less, but you never truly are over someone you love. Especially with a child involved, she will always be some part of your life.

As for her not letting you see your child, that is terrible. I'm sure whatever decision is made through the divorce will grant you time though.

[Crankor]

Well sometimes it's not so much getting over as learning to just move on. I guess the upside to the divorce is you'll be able to see your kid again.

[xDavid96x]

Have you been through this or something similar too this?

[Crankor]

You could say that. But more so just being around many people while they were or are going through pretty much the same thing

[Avicenna]

First of all, you need to get a good lawyer to protect your rights. Time heals lots of things and you will get over her eventually.

[In_Trance]

My guess is you need professional help