It's been 3 years since I've broken up with my ex. I am unable to get over her?

[Anonymous]

I haven't talked to her for more than a year now. And recently she posted a picture with a guy she is currently dating, which broke my heart. I couldn't sleep. I know it has been 3 years, and I know it is over but I can just not get over her, & forget the time we spent with each other. Every day she is in my thoughts. I never had closure, I wasn't even told as to why she even wanted to break up in the first place. I was left, just like that. Can someone help?

[Anonymous]

you REALLY need to ask her for closure so you can move on. 3 years is a very long time to still be dealing with this. please ask her. i felt like that before, been there, we weren't even dating, and yes i spent around 3 years still thinking about him all day every day, it was exhausting. i eventually got over it. but of course i still think about him and check up privately. i don't think anyone truly gets over things like that, sometimes those are very deep wounds, but you do get better and things get better. you just need to take a bit more time to heal which is okay. but eventually you'll get there.

[Flower7]

It would help to stop following her on social media and not look at her page anymore.

[Anonymous]

The picture of her with her new man is closure.
It's over and done with. She belongs to him now.
I know that hurts and I'm not trying to be mean, but those are the facts you need to accept and move on.

You might understand it, but you haven't accepted it. That's your problem

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Fuck closure & move on dude! Three years is a long time so stop stalking her on social media, grow a set & start dating again.

[DextroShade]

You have to block her on everything and find someone new, don't waste years of your life pining over some bitch who doesn't want you.