Why do I miss my ex boyfriend from 3 years ago?

[Anonymous]

He was my first love. We lost our virginities to each other. I started dating him when I was 17, and dated until I was 18. I am now almost 22. We had an on and off long distance relationship that ended quite badly, 3 years ago. Since then I’ve been in a serious and stable relationship for 2.5 years. Recently I’ve been missing my ex. So I messaged him to see how he’s doing and to apologize for the way I broke up with him. Then I started missing him harder. I miss having sex with him. I also broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years since I am no longer attracted to him and we have some other relationship issues. As each day passes, I miss my ex from 3 years ago more and more. We talk a few times a week. I don’t know how to stop feeling this way because it’s unhealthy.

[IJhonnyI]

See you broke up with him next time get someone else break through your social anxiety and don't let the next person you choose to date (make sure he's a good guy) and don't let him go

[exitseven]

You are remembering a relationship that was not as good as you remember. It is a pretty normal thing to do.

[exitseven]

Thank for the MHO😎

[Blackcosmo]

You're still in love with him. If things don't work out, you have to move on.

[Guy13]

Cause you are a little pathetic..,

[Guy13]

Life has been such 💩 that this is all you’ve got to hold onto?

[Guy13]

Because you have not taken a Risk with anyone else since?

[Avicenna]

Talk to other guys

[Asker]

I’m not a very social person but I’ll try :)

[Avicenna]

It’ll help you move on from him