Why is love and relationships so hard these days to find? It sucks now?

[Anonymous]

I hate this generation. I dont fit in with it. Guys dont take it seriously anymore.. i wish i can find a guy who doesn't like social media, is a gentlemen, non simp, non player,&loyal. I always seem to get lied to, ghosted, cheated on, etc. Im so done with this generation. I was born in 1998 and i wish i was a kid back in the days. I lose hope everyday i find out a break up happens, someone stops texting me,& I end up lied to. Why should I keep hope anyways only to end up hurt and a guy goes to his next swipe or hoe on social media? Its all a joke and i just wanna cry..

[cryscrys1]

I was born in 1991 feel like a dinosaur with my age but I have always felt as you that I can’t belong to this society. Since I was 4 I knew something was wrong and off with this shitty earth and people and manmade rules. Others telling you how to live what’s wrong and right , plus ‘ them’ hiding the fact why we are here for… it makes it harder. You know and can feel it we are special human being we are here for a purpose yet they hide the truth so our spirits are blocked locked offline.. dead! And here we are wishing we born in the 50s! I’m sure life was hard back then too. We simply want to escape to the unknown and not face this plastic delusional insane current events and society.

[Adam1978]

If you want a guy that doesn't like social media you won't find him on social media or dating platforms. You should also consider going older if you want a more traditional and mature man. Finding a guy without social media is easier than a girl these days. But both are getting rarer because if you lack the exposure you also miss some opportunities.

[Anonymous]

Because this generation is all about themselves. All selfishness and self gratification. Nobody has any virtue. Girls used to value themselves and want to only be with someone special. Nowadays, they're the ones most likely to engage in friends with benefits casual hookups. Men see no value in women other than as a fuck.

[crmoore]

I fully understand where you're coming from. Its frustrating and it's okay to take a moment to gather yourself. But every lie, cheat, and break up you experience is just one step closer to the man you'll love forever.

[James899]

Yes. This generation is more into digital than reality that's where the relationship got weaker.

[Anonymous]

For every guy who lied to you there is a girl who has lied to him. Men haven't ruined dating all by themselves.