Dating

Why do people crawl back into your life when they didn't want you in the first place?

xLyndseeyx

Now that I'm in a very healthy relationship, I am thankful that I can share my happiness with somebody else. In the back of my head when my boyfriend and I talk, I tell him how thankful I am to have him. That before we got in a relationship, the universe tested me. I had two exes come back to me. From the amount of self-care and self-love, I enjoyed being on my own. Meeting my boyfriend was unexpected of me. I wasn't trying.

From my dating experience, it was crazy awful. I was in a weird situationship. He never gave me time or day. From waiting on a text message, it took anywhere from 2-4 days. LMAO. I got ghosted from that guy. It was always this 'busy' card. Yet we had amazing chemistry in person, along sexual. I got ghosted from him. Which lead to it being the best thing.

I healed half a year later. Enjoyed myself single. Branched myself out there to date. The ghosted ended up coming back to me, apologizing. Saying how much it hurt him that I wasn't in his life. Yet it's like... To wrap this altogether. When an ex of mine comes back, they try so hard the second time. To stay in my life the second time. Why do people tend to try harder the second time when they don't realize what they have first?

One of the guys I tried to date, I HELPED through his mental issues. He randomly dropped me. Now follows me on social media. Would message me randomly, wanting me to give him a chance.

Why are there people like this? Why do people take advantage of other people? I'm in my relationship, and I love my boyfriend. I'm there for him mentally, physically and through tough times. We have a strong relationship. Aka. Him and I in the profile picture. (:

Why do people crawl back into your life when they didn't want you in the first place?
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