Why would my situationship want to end things in person vs not over text?

[Chloemjajaj]

[OlderAndWiser]

Calling it a "situationship" suggests that it is not a serious and committed relationship and he doesn't feel that an in-person meeting was warranted.

[DreamLife7]

Because he found a woman he likes and it's not you. Whoever the woman is that he's with now or seeing he truly cares about and doesn't want you coming around since you're nothing to him. So he's doing this to prevent animosity and provide the new woman with peace.

[Chloemjajaj]

Why can’t he just tell me that in text tho?

[DreamLife7]

Because he doesn't want you contacting his phone anymore.

[Chloemjajaj]

Facts thank u

[DreamLife7]

Honestly, I would never get myself involved in a situationship. Only the man benefits from it, not the woman. In so many words, he's saying you're not good enough to be in a relationship with. Also, he used you until he spotted his dream girl, which is pretty sad.

[Chloemjajaj]

He ghosted me for a week and I asked him for my mug back yesterday. I also texted him yesterday too why did you ghost instead of ending it. All he said was, “we can do that when I give u the mug back”

[DreamLife7]

He never liked you. And why are you expecting him to provide you with an explanation? This was just a situationship. You knew that and allowed yourself to be used. Now he's done using you because the woman he wants who's a challenge, intelligent, strong , beautiful, and has standards and self respect is available.

[Chloemjajaj]

I do have self respect! Me and him decided to wait before making it official so I’m surprised by this

[DreamLife7]

A woman who respects herself and has high self esteem doesn't engage in "situationships" . He would never make a situationship official. He rejected you by placing you in a situationship. When a guy is ashamed of you the way you look, your lack of intellect your status they will place you in a situationship while the woman they like they will protect her like he's doing this new woman. And he may not even tell you about her to protect her because he likes her so much

[Chloemjajaj]

Facts. Thank you for helping me move on

[Chloemjajaj]

Also maybe he’s mad cause I never opened my legs since he didn’t like me anyways 🤣🤣

[DreamLife7]

I think you're mad and that you need to accept that he's not interested. I believe he's fine and has someone.

[Nessie6]

I wouldn't want it to end via text. I want tou to have the decency to sit with me and tell me why it won't work, we wish each other well and move on... closure i suppose

[bolverk]

That you are calling it "my situationship" makes it seem as you do not take it seriously, and that the other person want to meet face-to-face to end the "situationship" shows that they have honour, and see as ending it by text as a cowards way to do it.

[SYTHOX]

Maybe he respects you and doesn't want to do it over text because of that reason. Perhaps he was hoping for more by now? I'm willing to bet he just respects you though

[avery58]

It's just common decency to break up in person rather than text, even if it is just a situationship.

[slatyb]

Why is not important. What do you want? You don't have to meet with them.

[Anonymous]

Could be a few reasons. Maybe just out of respect. Could also be he’s trying to get his dick wet one more time before he ends it.

[ProbablyClueless]

Doing things in person allows for a basic modicum of human decency and respect.

[Keith469]

Because they are acting maturely and respectfully towards you.

[Heyhi146]

I think over text somethings just sounds very rude then they are really meant to be that could be a reason or maybe he wants to see your reaction

[Anonymous]

I don’t even know what a Situationship is. What kind of a situation are you in?

[Chloemjajaj]

It’s like the talking stage. You know where you’re still getting to know each other but not dating

[laly520]

doing it in person shows more respect

[Emanon25]

That’s up to you

[Chloemjajaj]

What do you mean?

[Emanon25]

Don’t go

[Chloemjajaj]

What do you think is going to happen?

[Emanon25]

No clue, but why do I have to meet someone to tell me goodbye

[lmkimcurious]

Maybe he’s just trying to be respectful

[Zoi2001]

I believe it’s more respectful and less cowardly.