Should I break up over text or in person?

[Anonymous]

Been with my boyfriend for over a year now he is 33 living with his parents who treat him like baby always checking to see when he is coming home, he has anger issues every time i try to correct him on something he thinks I’m attacking him we can’t communicate like adults without him shutting down getting angry and giving me the silent treatment. The other day we were in the supermarket and he always wants to push the cart so i started going through aisles to find what i need when i checked my phone i noticed 1 missed called when i found him he gave me the most disgusting attitude ever and all i did was run off to get some fruits. I know I’m not in love with him i may care but I’m over him cause now I’m constantly daydreaming about other men. He accuses me of still wanting my ex husband whom i been divorced from for over 4 years because me and him have a very healthy co parenting relationship. He’s not mature enough to be with me nor is he the kind of man i want around my son on a everyday basis and he wonders why i haven’t moved him in yet PATHETIC.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that sounds like a mess. Him getting all bent outta shape over little stuff and giving you the silent treatment would drive me crazy too. You definitely shouldn't have to put up with that.

As for breaking up, I'd say do it in person cause you been together over a year. Even if it's probably gonna be drama. At least look him in the eyes when you tell him it's over, ya know? Have the conversation somewhere public like a cafe or park though, in case he does lose it.

When you do it, be real clear it's not gonna work and you're done. Don't leave any room for hope on his end. Might be messy at first, but clean breaks heal better eventually.

Sorry it didn't work out, but you gotta do what's right for you and your kid. Don't waste more time on a dude who acts like that. His anger issues ain't your problem anymore once you dump him! Stay strong - you got this.

[molonski2]

This guy is a full on Nancy Boy , seriously what an Fwit , if all that you say is true , you should never have been with him in the first place , make sure his stuff is out of your home , and just send the fool an SMS , that's all he is worthy of , hopefully one day he will grow up.

[rosemilk]

he sounds crazy and like he would blow up if the break up was in person. if you do it in person, make sure you can protect yourself. but i think, in this situation, it'd be easier to get all of your feelings out through text, that way you don't miss anything you want to say without him interrupting you and blowing up in your face

[Paris13]

Sit Him Down and make iot Clear, dear Here-----You Want a BREAK. Not a Break Up For Now. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[BadApple69]

He sounds bad enough where I would say just send him a text. “Sorry it’s not working out. Have a good life…bye”.
Then block him. You said he has anger issues, don’t give him the opportunity to focus that anger on you.

[DreamCrescent]

text is fjne. you don’t care and won’t miss him. get it over with. i doubt he’ll notice it was a text and not in person anyway at his maturity level

[larry69]

Text especially if you want him to never talk to you again. Then Block him.

[exitseven]

Doing it with a text is cruel.

[Sparkie460]

You should always do it in person.

[Anonymous]

Always break up in person.

[Zestyassmf1997]

In person.

[jimmy2]

Text is saver