My ex boyfriend slept with someone else after we broke up, should I take him back?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend and I were in a relationship for 20 months but we had liked each other since 6th grade and we had always been best friends. He wanted to be with me for a long time and heeven waited for me for over a year, always showing me and everyone that he really really loved me and wanted to be with me. We were in a long distance relationship because we went to college in different states but everything was perfect. Surprisingly, he broke up with me during the second semester in college. He never called, texted, or asked me how I was during those horrible 3 months. He was really acting like he didn't care about me anymore and that he was a completely different person. I was devastated. I cried every day during the first month and every now and then during the next two. We didn't do the no contact rule because we did talk through Snapchat and texted like once or twice a month but most conversations were started by me. He just never seemed to miss me and that really hurt me. After the three months, it was finally summer so we were both coming back home. He went to pick me up at the airport and he couldn't stop smiling when he saw me. He told me that now that he saw me he regrets everything he did, he wants me back bc he's a monster without me. He thinks I always keep him in the right track and that he loves me and can't picture his future without me. He says he doesn't even understand why he broke up with me because he never stopped loving me. He never called me bc "he was scared and the demon that took over him wouldn't let him talk to me even though deep down inside he wanted to". He even talked and had sex with another girl (once) and that is what stings me. I want him back but if he really never stopped loving me, how could he be with someone else? We lost our virginities to each other. This is what's keeping me from giving him another chance. He told me he never wanted to do it with anyone else and look what happened. Help me :(

[Sailormoonprincess]

forgive him, be went completely Mad whule you were away and I think it was because he was paranoid and thought you were doing something with some other guy.. did you upload pictures with any other guys? Anything that could have made him paranoid? He only fold you about the sex thing with some other girl, because he thinks thats what you done with some other guy. Forgive him. Is what I suggest and explain to him everything that really happened while yous were separated. trust me, the fact he done that. Doesn't mean he's a bad person, it means he was paranoid you were with some other guy to the point he was terrified. You should ask him of it... and be his friend while doing so. He wasn't talking to you properly for that same reason as well. I think you both need to establish your trust towards eachothet

[KiwilovesChris]

I'd take him back... You two were apart and he was surrounded by temptations, he tried to move on and realized he made a mistake. I'm sure your heart broken and devistated by what he did but if you really love him you'd respect the fact that you two weren't together and he told you as opposed to trying to hide or deny it. I'm sorry that happened but college is the time to date and try new things. It sounds like that's what he tried to do but sees your what he wants. Only go back to him if you can forgive him and move forward.

[Anonymous]

Personally I wouldn't. Once you let him back in, and you break up again, the routine may continue. If you do take him back, let him know how you feel/felt about it. Do whatever makes you happy! :)

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't take him back were I you.

[Anonymous]

dont take him back.