I want a loyal guy. Why does it seem so hard these days to find?

[Paulalove98]

My last relationship ended because my ex turned into a cheater and liar to find out he was filling my head with lies and had a bunch of other girls he was talking to on the side. I know social media nowdays and hookup culture plays a big factor as to also why loyalty is becoming rare. I don't dwell over my past anymore but my previous ex before this guy was at least loyal to me the core even though he was abusive emotionally. I just want a guy who ACTUALLY has a heart and cares about me too. Someone that would say "I can't do this to her" "I love you, I'd never hurt her" and actually mean it😞

[Finchie40]

Because guys want a loyal girl as well and sadly that’s hard for most guys to find as well. I blame social media for lot of negativity in relationships , Everyone assumes everyone is a cheater everyone assumes someone is faking it , everyone assumes that they are lying and talking out their ass so trusting someone these days is harder for most people, and I believe social media contributed to it because everyone is planted in their phones , most people Today are very selfish only really thinking of themselves , and assume the worst case
Scenario so if those guys are Lying and cheating on you then realize they aren’t the guy for you and kick them to the curb , every new potential relationship is a 50/50 chance on whether it will work or not , it’s a chance we all take when we really like someone , we can’t
Read Each others minds so we really don’t know what we are Getting ourselves into with someone , or what their intentions are , they can tell you everything you want to hear but they can be
Talking out their ass , Sadly the girls I had interest in and treated them the way I wanted to be Treated turned around and back stabbed me after they said they wanted the same things as me , They enjoyed the convenience of me so those type of girls to me are whores , they only want what’s best for them , they will never experience true love because they constantly think grass is greener on the other side so those kind of girls I kick to the curb where they belong , Thanks for a good time and not a long time cuz I am not going to give my heart to a lying whore. The only way a relationship will work is if 2 people remove selfishness for each other and resist temptation for each other, making each other feel valued and wanted and your both make each other your top priority , if you don’t have that with someone then they are just a waste of time , abd be thankful they latched on to someone else because they can have them. Don’t ever change for someone and always treat someone the way you want to be treated , we all come across bad seeds in life but eventually you will find a good one , it won’t be perfect so it’s best to keep watering that one over someone that just likes the convenience of you. value yourself worth and realize you deserve someone that wants to stand by your side over someone that runs to the streets , I want a girl that stays under the sheets with me only

[Jhunitor]

in my opinion, men don't assume enough their woman is a cheater. I saw too many men, me included, blinded by the thought that women are held to the same standard as men concerning faithfulness and respectful behaviors toward the opposite sex. Even if women don't have sex, I have seen/heard of many women who even though they had a boyfriend were seen grabbing other guys ass or dick in bar or clubs.

[Finchie40]

Exactly , Girls try to play innocent when really they are worst then most guys are

[MrOracle]

Most women talk about wanting a loyal guy, but most women don't PICK guys based on their likely loyalty (i. e., based on his morals and values), but, rather, they choose and pursue only the best-looking, highest-status guys. Guess which guys are exponentially more likely to cheat? If you guessed those very same top guys, you are right.

In other words, most women go out of their way to pick cheaters - they don't see it that way, but that's who most women pick. And when he cheats and they break up, she goes out and chooses another cheater. Good looks/high status and cheating goes hand in hand, and if a woman could put her feelings aside for 5 minutes and really look at his attitude and behavior, she would see all the signs of a cheater in him. But women don't WANT to look, because they don't want to have any reason to not date the hot guy that she wants - and so she ends up with another cheater.

Understand that these top guys are attractive to almost all women, so there will be an endless parade of women behind you who want to take your man for themselves, and so many will throw herself at him, and when that happens 5 times a day, he's going to cheat eventually - usually sooner rather than later.

If you get with one of those guys, you will always end up sharing him. That's just part of the package, and it's never going to change. You could choose a regular guy, but we all know that's not going to happen, so get used to sharing...

[SpokenTruth]

1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

EXACTLY! Women want what God rejects which is riches the Bible warns against. Women want ungodly things and to partake in such things such as feminism which is why feminist want to take down the patriarchy. The patriarchy is not of man the patriarchy is God's order. Women go for money and fame the worldly things God warned against. Feminist scorn men over claims of men objectifying women for their bodies while feminist objectify men for things that are not even a part of men such as money and fame. Women go for men that put money first not God and end up with ungodly men by default. And then women accuse all men of the evils in which they chose.

[BlueScorpio]

@SpokenTruth you do know that some of the riches people that run most corporations who happen to be billionaires are men right? Men can be just as obsessed with power, status, fame and riches, it's not just women who care about materialism cause if that was the case, then God wouldn't of told us about the story of Lazarus and the rich man who ignored the pleas of Lazarus and wouldn't give him food or water. He saw that man begging every day but chose not to help him. When they both died Lazarus went to heaven and the rich mam went to hell and became the beggar. You guys have got to stop acting like men don't and can't have these exact same flaws cause they can and they do. You have flaws just like anyone else, it's not woman thing and it's not man thing, it's a human thing. Everyone has fallen short of God's glory.

[SpokenTruth]

@BlueScorpio I didn't say men don't covet money they do. But men making decisions to date or marry women would be very rare, that's not so when it comes to women. Women largely make decisions on dating and marrying based on what he's worth where as men normally don't do that. That is what I was getting at coveting money.

[MrOracle]

Do you know why the vast majority of men have done anything more than what was necessary for survival? It was to be able to attract the best women. That's always been the primary motivation for men. Why? Because women have always wanted comfort and nice things.

Of course that's not the only motivation, and of course a few men are driven by competition or by their own ideas to create or invent, but even they largely have an underlying need to be attractive towards women.

[SpokenTruth]

Well if it takes the root of all evil to attract them then I don't want them it's as easy as that.

[BlueScorpio]

@SpokenTruth men make the that decision usually based on looks, beauty, and youth when it comes to women, so men and women have their own checklist in what they look for in partner.

[BlueScorpio]

@SpokenTruth you have to understand that it's man/society that gave value to the root of all evil. Men have always wanted more for themselves, more resources, more land, more power etc. To the point theyve killed one another for it, its in the binle and its in most history books. To this day its men who hold most resources, political, and economic powers that refuse to spread their wealth among the populace. Your fight has never been with us, it's always been with yourselves.

[SpokenTruth]

@BlueScorpio And you are aware of that why? It's on account you have partook in feminist ideology to compete against men. Feminism was around during the 1950'son back but not very popular and everything went smoothly just fine. Since then women have been taught to compete against men. And just look what it has come to now. Women against everything a woman is suppose to be, against God aka the patriarchy, against men, against children, against being women, against just about every role women were suppose to fill.

Yes men do look at women based on beauty and youth that's called attraction and both which are a psychical part of a woman not some object that isn't a part of her being that she can or can not obtain. Meanwhile women attract to what it not any part of any man thing men were not born with such as a woman's psychical beauty women are attracted to a psychical object a man can or can obtain. Men are not born with money in their pockets the same as women are born with psychical youth and beauty. Feminist hypocrisy has accused men for years of objectifying women when in fact women are the true objectifier's.

[Minahh]

I've dated your regular guy. Could be even considered an ugly one and he turned out to be a covert narcissist.

[hormesis1975]

Good morning. And where did you look for your boyfriends? In social networks, messengers for dating or in real life? Nowadays a lot of people prefer to start dating with online communication. It doesn't always end with a happy ending.

[BlueScorpio]

@SpokenTruth I'm not really into feminism, I understand the basics and why it happened but I'm not fully indulge in it. You have to understand the reason in why it happened, back then a woman was completely depended on her husband, if the husband became abusive or took off on his family it left the woman and children in a vulnerable position. These thing took place in the 50s, we can not sit here and pretend it didn't happen cause it did. I'm not saying every household was this way but it was for a lot of women. Domestic abuse was not seen as legal issue but a family matter that most people turned a blind eye too. Now your a woman trapped in abusive marriage with kids and no where to turn, this is why women got fed up and how feminism was sparked. I'm sorry but a lot of husband's who disrespected their wives, her efforts, and her intelligence are the reason feminism even exists today. As the saying goes, one bad apples spoils the bunch and men like that is what messed up for the good husband's and fathers who did right by their families. Sure there where women who wanted control and power over men, but there were also women who just wanted tonstop living in fear of men and their overbearing husband's. I don't object to traditional roles, in perfect role if I could stay home and raise my daughter knowing my husband would cover everything, I would. But at the same time I need security and my own stash of income in case anything should happen to him. I dint see my husband ever becoming abusive towards me but I do know for fact that on his income alone would not be enough to sustain us.

[SpokenTruth]

@BlueScorpio Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”

Isaiah 4:1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”

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You see the Verses there. According to gag are 31 years old and that's what you have been taught. But I grew up in the sixty's and seventy's and I know from personal things that I witnessed back then that if a woman called the cops on a man over physical violence she was given a option to file charges on him and have him removed from the home the cops gave her that choice and that was back in the sixty's. Feminism got it start here in the US with a hand full of wealthy women and it was nothing to do with giving women equal rights it was to destroy the family unit in order for a few to take control. It is at its roots Marxism and that is where it got it's start by those who wanted to subvert and destroy the family unit done by design. I have given you the truth behind what is going on at the top in the Verses you see there.

[BlueScorpio]

@SpokenTruth Isaiah 4:1 is continuation of chapter 3 that you need not quote. The haughty women will come after one man cause many men will die in war leaving these women to approach one Man.

25 Thy men shall fall by the sword, and thy mighty in the war.

This is punishment on Israel, the women and men, for their idolatry. You guys have got to stop quoting scriptures that only seem beneficial to you while leaving out the rest. You have to stop cherry picking what makes you look good while making others look bad. God is judging and sending punishment on all who where disobeying, the women recieved sores upon their head and men died.. no one's goes left unpunished because God is just.

[SpokenTruth]

@BlueScorpio And in case you didn't know, the US is practically a annex of Israel you could argue the entire west however especially the US. Do you know which is Mystery Babylon? Take a guess. You are sitting in it now. And we are right now entering the Great Tribulation.

[VanillaSalt]

This is correct here. The more choices you have the more your able to cheat. Idc about this god nonsense… men want money and power women want men with money and power. Men want beautiful women women want to be beautiful. Who cares what is good and bad just understand we aim for money, power, and looks because it improves our quality of life. Everyone wants the best not expecting the bad that comes with it. It’s like winning the lottery. Sure now your rich but what bad comes from that? Sure you got a hot man that every woman wants but what comes from that? Sorry but good comes with bad.

[BlueScorpio]

@SpokenTruth yes I'm very aware. I even know of the euphrates river drying up aming other things.. so we're very close to Christ's return.

[Tracker1958]

@BlueScorpio and those rich men can have any woman on earth. He doesn't have to be nice, kind, or anything. He can pick any woman like picking a coat of the rack. There is absolutely nothing a woman won't do for money. Just look at the sex industry to prove my point.

[BlueScorpio]

@Tracker1958 Because men use their money, status and power to attract such women. When men get rich, they tend to go get themselves trophy wives. There's loads of stories where the men will drop their come up girlfrien and wife just to get the women they truly desired by had no means of getting. Also the sex industry is booming because the main audience is men, that's why women do it cause rhey know you'll come and pay for it. Just like onlyfans and strip clubs, men are mostly responsible for funding the sex industry. Men who are mostly in control of the media push sex cause they know sex sales and men will come rushing for it. I'm sorry but if you guys want to see a change, you're going to have to be the change. Tell men to stop supporting porn or participating in porn, stop supporting only fans, porn hub etc. Stop going to strip clubs and brothels, stop advocating for prostitution to legal. Yes I've seen some men wanting it to be legalized it here on this site yet have the nerve to complain about bodycount etc. Men can not complain about what they uphold and participate in, it's like putting your hand on hot stove then whing about getting burnt yet you keep doing it. I tell women the exact same thing. Truth is most people are hard headed and stubborn and don't want to give up their old habits and their wicked ways. They want to continue in their sins but not reap the consequences for it. Sorry life don't work that way and the second you realize that, society will improve again.

[VanillaSalt]

@bluescoprio don’t your DARE blame all this shit on men! Porn could not survive without women being a part too. YOU ALLOW IT! Onlyfans wouldn’t be what it is without women being willing to show off. Dating wouldn’t be what it is without women being willing to fuck before marriage. I’m tired of women like you unwilling to take accountability for your own mistakes.

[Tracker1958]

Women only date men that other women want and will do anything to steal. Truly women get what they deserve when it comes to men.

[Minahh]

You guys arguing here... like it all comes down to don't be a shitty person and you're gonna live a good life 😃

[VanillaSalt]

People don’t get what they deserve @Minahh. People either get lucky or they don’t.

[Anonymous]

I'm in a similar situation. My first ex was very abusive to me.. My second was a habitual liar and cheated on me.

I think all you can do is trust a guy will be loyal to you until he gives you a reason not to trust him. People can change over time. Their wants , needs, desires and feelings can change with time. When people change even loyal people can cheat, hurt or leave you. So everyone has the potential to cheat, but not everyone will cheat.

So when you meet a guy you like and connect with all you can do is trust him based on how you perceive him until he proves you otherwise.

It makes me laugh when guys say woman only choose guys with looks and status. And that's why they're cheated on 🤣 Not all good-looking guys will cheat and not average or 'ugly' guys will be loyal.

Why would anyone choose someone they weren't physically attracted to. I dated a guy and everyone said he was ugly. I didn't see him that way. But he cheated on me.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO 💖

[jennifer_bloom]

Men like confident and secure people who value themselves and do things that further their social and professional interests. If you do not give your soul and mind the full care that it longs for, men who like to take care of women will not pursue you, and the guys that like to neglect women will be your most common option in the dating pool because they think you neglect yourself. This is not a personal fault scenario because most behaviours are learned and unconscious and humans do not even know they do it.

[Tracker1958]

Men don't like confident women because those women are to combative. Men are looking for humble women to marry. Women being humble are the gold mine when it comes to wife material. Great woman doesn't have to tell people she is great.

[SlavicThor]

This probably won't be the type of answer you're looking for in terms of direct answer...

But to understand more of what's going on I need to know a few things. How were you treating him, were you:

1. controlling, anxious, insecure? or the opposite

2. sweet, giving, and loving? Generally anway in short if you could describe how you treated him?

We are complex, women and men love and feel differently. Men act more on logic, women act more on emotions. But, we both have one thing in common we tend to push one another away if there's a lack of respect/trust in tandum with focusing on the 'relationship' rather than the individual and a partner's wants/needs along with smothering behaviour or overly to overly persue with conditional love expecting in return

On the other hand, if one provides too much love and affection without reciprocation it will be taken for granted and cause boredom from the receiving end and will cause them to leave as their partner lacks self respect...

[UniquelyBasic]

Depends on where you're looking and if the men you are attracted to are these men you are hurt by so it just seems like loyal good men are hard to find. Maybe there are plenty of loyal men, but you don't necessarily want them because they are not your type physically or whatever. Also, the men who approach women a lot are maybe more likely to be a certain way which may coincide with them acting abusive or cheating. The quiet men who are maybe not used to talking to women are probably the loyal men you want but they just aren't presenting themselves to you, so it gives you a false perception of men. At least the ones you've dated.

[Beatrix7]

it is difficult to find one maybe u could be doing what i use to do was go for the bad guys to much bad ass fuckers that would do that not all of them are cheaters or hitters or users but a good few are i found a nice guy a few days ago spome to him a good 3 weeks before we met we also decided not to sleep together until we got to know each other better thats sometimes a mistake to thats one me and my ex did i went to his house fucked the first night before we got to know each other more big mistake aswel

[Kinkyhubby]

It's because most people suck these days. Both men and women today, is in the i want it now. But people also cheat for different reason. I never had and was burnt by my ex wife. Took me a long time to trust again. And sometime still have issues with that. She waited til I joined the army to do it.

I had a few girlfriend that where a psychological mess. I try to stay with them until I didn't want to deal with it anymore, she would start a fight to get me to hit her, because she was use to that. And I won't hit a woman so it end. So that ended.

I know a friend cheated on his wife because their sex life slowed way down. If that wasn't your case, then they are just ass holes. I'm just different I guess

[MCheetah]

Loyal men are everywhere. Your standards (like most modern women) are just ridiculously high and you feel entitled to the top 1-5% of elite men, who are less likely to be loyal because they can pick and choose any women they want. But women STILL always complain on here about how "there are no good men left" while refusing to date men under six feet, men who don't earn more than double their salary, or men less than an 8 in looks.

If you want a loyal man, stop going after Chads and start going after men less than a 9 or 8.

And yeah, hookup culture, which is initiated and controlled by women (just like everything else in the dating world) is also a large part of it.

[Paulalove98]

For the record the guy I was with was 5"5 I don't care about height or d size..

[Paulalove98]

That's majority of women's standards but NOT everyone's. I DON'T care if he's 6ft or not or is a 10 even an 8. He can be 5 or 6 for all I care.

[MCheetah]

@Paulalove98
Men who are unattractive looking, like a 5, should not be treating you like garbage and being this disloyal. They don't get enough chances to blow it like that.

[Jhunitor]

The thing is that most women have as much opportunities with guys than those top 1-5% of elite men have with girls. Men need to be more cautious around trusting women. In addition, women are not held to any standard of respect toward men. Even if they did not totally cheat, they do grab/caress other guys' body part when they go out at bars and clubs.

[Paulalove98]

@MCheetah sadly he didn't care about me and I was giving more than receiving in this relationship which unfortunately has happened before. I'm not gonna sit here and say I'm a bombshell either because I'm not but I think I'd fall under the average looking girl category and all I need and desire is ONE guy just ONE guy who will be loyal to me. You also may be surprised to hear this but my previous ex before this guy was a 8 no joke and he was loyal to me the whole relationship I know for a fact he never cheated on me. I think the hook up culture has ruined everything.

[MCheetah]

@Paulalove98
Well, if it's just one bad guy, then chalk it up as a loss and try another.
But if it becomes a pattern of "disloyal guys," then you'd only have yourself to blame.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Why? Because 99% of all guys have been corrupted by Hollywood, Music industry and Porn, which is controlled by hardcore Satanists who warship Lucifer. All that has been done by design and for a very deliberate purpose. Regardless if you want to believe in Jesus or not, everything was done by a Lucifer himself. He corrupted men, corrupted women and by default he corrupt children and therefore all would go to hell along with Lucifer himself. We are living in a very sad, brutal and depressing world because of Lucifer. Your believe in Jesus is irrelevant, because he is as real as your spoon on your table. The greatest lie Lucifer has ever pulled on humanity, is he convinced most people that he, hell and heaven doesn't exist.

[Redstang88]

That’s the opinion of one belief system….

[Labokachulaa]

Dating is hard because most of us carry things with us, a lot of us are wanting to find a better partner and not trying to BE the better partner.

Also, there's so many mind games and you have to keep in mind dating is different. We have hookup culture, everyone is focused on the "options" they may or may not have. It's too much. You can "entertain" 300 people in a hour and have all of their attention. It keeps you wanting more and more. Instead of attracting what you would typically be able to "pull" you have options that realistically wouldn't give you the time of day.

I think that's where it messes up, the attention goes to our heads and then we miss out on a good thing. That's what I've seen at least. I could be wrong.

[RavVid]

Well I'd suggest it is because guys and girls aren't taking relationships very seriously in their twenties. Sort of more convenient than serious.

Recently I have seen this same question put in different ways. I think the answer is simply you should date older guys then you probably are. To be blatantly honest when I was younger I just wanted to get in. As I got older I took relationships more seriously.

If you want a loyal guy than you want a guy who will take his relationship with you seriously. I think you should look for a guy at least 5 years older or better 10.

There is an old saw on this. "Better an older man's darling than a younger man's fool". It's not to say that older men aren't players - they certainly can be. But it is more likely that a man with few more years on you will be more serious and value you more.

[Anonymous]

People don’t cheat necessarily because they don’t love you, it can be a habit or weakness to temptation it’s not as black and white as that.

if you want loyalty and trust I recommend complete openness between you both like having open access to each others cell phones and computers etc i know some people are against this but if you have nothing to hide what’s the problem also I think it would help to avoid some temptations of social media like you say.

[Paulalove98]

I think nowadays people are so selfish to give some of that up too. My previous ex before the recent ex was more open to it and we shared our social medias but this recent ex didn't wanna be open about social media at all so I think that explains a lot and I found out he was cheating on me. I agree. Some people would think it's stupid or crazy to wanna see your partners phone or socials but exactly like if there's nothing to hide then why hide? But I feel like if someone loves someone enough, they wouldn't cross that line. Temptation is always there but if someone has a heart they won't let someone else get in the way and they will be true to their partner otherwise their a piece of shit..

[RealMarek]

The family court system is stacked against men. Women can and do change their minds, file for divorce, and sometimes get alimony from a guy who did nothing to merit divorce. Alternatively, the sexual revolution allows for sex without commitment. So a guy has a choice: sleep with women casually or risk everything on a relationship that has 50% odds of divorce with consequences that can be catastrophic for the man.

Also, a lot of younger men are porn addicted or immature these days. These can be real obstacles to commitment.

[FilmGuy93]

Some of that is because of your age, but most of it is because the things make someone attractive while they do their own thing (living an interesting and productive life, for example) have nothing to do with being loyal, which requires the person to be willing and able to change what they're doing to accommodate another person.

Now, it so happens that there ARE people out there like me, who mostly have the flexibility to do their own thing anywhere in the world, with whoever I want; but we're rare.

I'm a blessed man; I associate with people as a matter of choice and I'm free to do so, but most people aren't in that situation.

[Spiritofn]

Peoples psychologoy is fukt it takes time…. A man won’t look for a woman for 2 years with no desire for another woman not even turn his head. But will get into a relationship will be happy as can be, but be ignored by his girlfriend for a day & will have such a mood swing of desperation and will talk to 15 different women….. 🤣 we honestly can be pathetic creatures love is about pride, love&pain we all go through it. Moments where we go “awe **** I snapped on that guy/girl for no reason didn’t I” but have the toughest time apológizing or when we go through so much pain and yet we just keep our mouth shut like little idiots. Or wen we love someone so much and not say a word. Life isn’t easy be greatful lmao. & except the fact that we need a little reminder that weird shit happens…. It sucks but it’s the truth…

[itsalyssaagain]

I don't know if this is good to say lol but I got cheated on a few months ago and I really didn’t see it coming. He was the nicest guy I’d ever been with and I thought he genuinely loved me. After that I gained trust issues and like you, started to believe that loyalty doesn’t exist. Now I’ve learned that actually, men can be trash in different ways LOL. If he’s not cheating he’s gonna be trash in one way or another.

[AmeerX]

Hey, not everyone is a trash )).

[itsalyssaagain]

I’m sure lol

[itsalyssaagain]

Not a few months ago!! A while back actually!*

[AmeerX]

Hey, I saw your question. Don't worry, you deserve a sweet loving person and not that trash of a man.
Just don't blame yourself in your situation))

[itsalyssaagain]

Thank you!

[AmeerX]

Bless you ))

[Tina19]

What you mentioned in last line is something a person with empathy will only as as he will put himself in your position and look at the situation secondly ground reality is yes being loyal is a choice and people can easily give in to that temptation of sexual attraction towards the other person makes it difficult to cheat so yeah don't get expectations high with loyalty nowdays

[Alex8736]

agree 100% 😁

[dowser19]

Both of my roommates, current and the one before, are big time fuckboy/pimp types and they have women FLOCKING to them. They KNOW that women say they want, and what they actually DO, are almost NEVER the same thing. That's the difference between those type of guys and decent guys. I know a ton of guys who aren't like that... know how many have girlfriend's? 0. Fuckboys know women better than women know themselves. I've never cheated, but tbh, I have zero interest in dating at all. I see what's going on, and my odds of finding someone who's not selling content 24/7 or having been turned out by half the city are almost nil. I win far more on my sportsbook.😏

[sage2021]

To be honest, you will really never know if they are cheating or lying to you because some of them hide it so well.
Maybe in the beginning he will be loyal, but years down the road that could change and he might become a cheater.
There is never a guarantee when it comes to love. You can wish for it, but even my husband that was so sweet cheated on me. I would have never thought he would do that, but he did. It was our forth year together at Christmas 🌲 time. 😔

[Anonymous]

Yes they exist but you have to be patient and reject if you don’t find them loyal right away rather than seeing if they can change or you misunderstood~
Don’t rush take your time and listen to your intuition and keep exploring don’t settle or jump into a relationship right away

[NewYorkCity]

When it comes to looks, the only loyal guys you can find would be 6.5 and below on a scale 1-10. Everything above 6.5 those type of guys most likely will never be loyal, because there is no reason for them to be loyal. Ask your self a question, why should they settle down with one girl, if they are easily able to get 100's?

[tzdc21]

It actually isn't. The problem is, a lot of times, when loyal guys do approach women they either get: A) Rejected B) Put in the friend-zone or C) Get taken advantage of. This doesn't happen with ALL WOMEN but it's happened enough to the point where it is now considered a regular thing to expect.

[jshm2]

Your shitty taste in guys seem to be the common denominator, kiddo.

If you keep picking frogs, you must be stupid to expect one of them to magically turn into a prince for you.

Don't blame the guys - they are just doing what they are doing. YOU need to realise that your dating radar is fucked up.