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Why is hard to find a good man?

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  • Being_a_good_Indian
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    It is not difficult to find a good man. Every person wants good man and woman. We all have high expectations. We focus less on what in reality we are. We blame others for our mistakes rather than accepting our own. We all are the best judges. 🙃

    We has to identify the person is good or not by observing them in day to day life. We can identify by their body language. It doesn't mean that good people doesn't exist. Just we might have not met the person who is good from our point of view. Each person has positive and negative sides. The Movement we accept the rule of nature that no person is perfect and start thinking we can find the good person we will definitely find good person. We should never lose hope that good people doesn't exist. Few are happy Single and few are with wrong woman. The movement we feel that this person is good for us we should not lose the opportunity and who knows good luck come to both of them.

    All the best for your future boyfriend.

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      thanks

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    • Being_a_good_Indian
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      Welcome. 😊

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  • MrOracle
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    It's because most of the "good men" aren't the most physically attractive guys - they are the average-looking guys. Women want the hot guys, but the hot guys know that they can get away with being assholes and still get laid constantly, so that's what they do.

    A lot of really attractive women are much the same way, except they want money or status. The dynamic is the same, though.

    Good guys tend not to advertise much - they are busy living their lives - so there isn't a lot of bluster from them, but they are out there. They are the guys you see but never look at...

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      really, I like than

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      mean I like that

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  • abbs221
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    I found my boyfriend 2 years ago on my first day at a new school. He hated me at first, but here we are 2 years later, and we have been together for 7 months. Before me, he was a partier. He drank every weekend, almost died a few. Now, he is totally different. He was and always will be perfect for me. I knew that the day I met him. He is everything I could ever ask for.
    So maybe your "good man" is just out doing the wrong things right now, or with the wrong woman, secretly wondering where you are too.

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  • SarahsSummer
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    They do exist. But rather than these good men being with the wrong woman, the women were just in the right place at the right time.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      really

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    • SarahsSummer
      SarahsSummer
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      Well yeah. What would make you think the good guys out there are with the WRONG women?

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  • richeriche
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    does not exist they just pretend to b nice during courting and infront of world for their image sake that's it..

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    • grega239
      grega239
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      generalising much

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    • richeriche
      richeriche
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      everyone leaves. what to say.. :(

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      that's nice

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    • grega239
      grega239
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      i can agree with that. everyone does leave

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    • richeriche
      richeriche
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      :( .. I believe in forever.. guy who is nice and honest and really love will never leave no matter what

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      thanks

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    • grega239
      grega239
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      lies... a nice and honest guy never gets to have a girl... only "bad boys" jerks and assholes do...

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    • richeriche
      richeriche
      +1 y

      ur welcm dear

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    • richeriche
      richeriche
      +1 y

      Grega it's not true

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    • grega239
      grega239
      +1 y

      ok how about this then. paying for rent when my ex was unemployed, 9/10 i bought food, we go out guess who paid. all while being constantly told how great i am and all that. all a lie. she found a job and the distancing started. "you're to nice you're cold , this that. gets my kicked out by the owner and runs off with some guy. and just like that all lost and hello therapy

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    • grega239
      grega239
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      and since im not alone in this, how many guys do u think said "im done"

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    • richeriche
      richeriche
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      I'm one girl who is saying I'm done too.. :'(

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    • richeriche
      richeriche
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      I'm from india. nice to meet u. ur from.. ur good name?

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    • grega239
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      slovenia

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  • GingerGuy
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    Some are already taken, but do you ask out any guys? If not, try it. Don't wait for them to ask you. And if you do ask guys, maybe you're going for the wrong type, try different ones (the shy ones that don't approach are often the "good ones"). And it's the same for us, it's hard to find a "good woman" too. It's hard to find someone you truly connect with, no matter who you are. He will come though, be patient. :)

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      what?, in my country a lady does not ask guy out

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    • GingerGuy
      GingerGuy
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      You should! That will be part of the problem.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      u don't understand, going forward to a guy and say I love u. that is like tell him u are stupid and shameful girl , he has meet in his life

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  • Unit1
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    Check your friendzone and spam folder.

    Define a good man.

    It's because the good men are rare and dating is a gamble. We men have also a hard time finding good women. Trust me on this one! We know your struggles. We are going through the same difficulties finding a good woman.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      I don't have friends

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      oh sorry

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  • The_guy_behind_you
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    About as hard as it is finding a good woman. It's not the men, it's the one that chose them. A poor decision is always followed by a poor consequence. Take a look at yourself and figure out why it is that all your dates are bad, is it because you chose poorly, or is the world at fault for this? If it's the latter, I'd say continue the way you go, then you simply get the kind you deserve.

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  • MarkGerrits
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    why is it hard to find a good girl ^^? cuz they mostly go for the dick heads and get their hearts broken.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      hahaaaa

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      love that

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  • Prime_Sol
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    That really depends on you're definition and worth.
    9/10 girls aren't worth the guys they are after.

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  • Anonymous
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    Good men are not hard to find. It's not even hard to date a good man.

    It's bloody hard for women to *deserve* a good man.

    It's like how lots of guys want a *hot* woman. They are rare, the guys often don't deserve one, but they want one anyway.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      really

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    • Anonymous
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      Yes really. You can see that in some of the other answers too.

      You say you don't go out, and have no friends. So how do you think you deserve a good man?

      And when someone suggested you ask a guy out, you acted like that means you walk up to a guy and tell him you love him. That's not what asking someone out is. Do you think a guy asks a girl out by telling her that he loves her?

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      OK, am guilty

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  • ayy1ma0
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    You come off as the female version of the "nice guy"

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  • MakeYouStranger
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    We are bloody out here, we just don't get replies or even likes on Tinder because women tend to pick the assholes.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      for real

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    • MakeYouStranger
      MakeYouStranger
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      Is that a question?

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      yes, I am

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    • MakeYouStranger
      MakeYouStranger
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      I don't really follow then

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      is a question

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    • MakeYouStranger
      MakeYouStranger
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      And what are you asking? Because yea, for real.

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  • Celestias
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    Maybe you're the problem, if you haven't found a single good guy yet.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      I haven't

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  • DonkeyRick69
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    They are already with the right women.

    Why is hard to find a good man?
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  • fantastic_fantasy
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    what is good man for you... I smoke , drink, even then my girlfriend says you are good man

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      good for u

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    • fantastic_fantasy
      fantastic_fantasy
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      u got so much chubby everywhere... just work on your fitness

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      thanks, am doing my best

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  • TheOne25
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    often times the good man may not be our ideal man so the good man is overlooked and it also depends what we classify a good man to be.

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  • pavanpavi
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    there is no one who is good or bad.. how would u describe bad?

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  • sidhh009
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    neither of them
    no one is good or bad
    it's just a matter of time.
    everyone changes by time.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      really

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    • sidhh009
      sidhh009
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      of course.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      OK , I hear

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  • Alessus
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    Maybe you just aren't good enough?

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      really, tell me more

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    • Yes-Man
      Yes-Man
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      @Alessus my thought exactly.

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      hahaa , very funny

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    • Yes-Man
      Yes-Man
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      Funny or not, it's a flat fact. Define "good man", cause you either have high standards, or (you know the other option).

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      ok, I will

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    • Alessus
      Alessus
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      @Yes-Man It does indeed seem to be the case that more and more people expect a great partner, when they are subpar themselves.

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    • Yes-Man
      Yes-Man
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      That happens because it's always easier to lay the blame on others.

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    • Alessus
      Alessus
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      @Yes-Man Fully agreed.

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      really, may u educate me about men

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      so I will know how to keep that man

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  • bibi3pu
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    because your standards are not based on real life

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  • DizzyAster
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    Are you sure you are a good woman?

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      am not perfect but am good

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    • DizzyAster
      DizzyAster
      +1 y

      Then it should be easy because like attract like.
      Are you sure you are looking for a good man?
      What type do you go for?

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      good, god fearing

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    • DizzyAster
      DizzyAster
      +1 y

      has job?
      is generally smart?

      If you want God fearing, try church. I think church people are alright, because they are trying.

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      maybe

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    • HD6630
      HD6630
      +1 y

      you sound like you are you kinda lost a trust when it come to man at church. the way you sound is like they are the worst when it come to being good.

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      yes, maybe

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    • HD6630
      HD6630
      +1 y

      what makes you think like that. we all thought that good is in church but you seems to have a different opinion.

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      yeah

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    • HD6630
      HD6630
      +1 y

      whats the opinion

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      I am

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  • cattertone
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    You're not looking in the right places

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      where is the right place

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    • cattertone
      cattertone
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      not sure, everyone is different you'll have to explore a bit. visit places that have things you like. if you like art go to an art exhibit and try to find a guy there

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      OK, I will

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  • Iron_Man s
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    They do exist you can find them in church

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      really, the ones in Church are more dangerous then the ones outside

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    • Iron_Man s
      Iron_Man
      +1 y

      How would you know have you ever been to church. And you wonder why you can't find a good man. Lose the negative attitude

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      come one, first they tell u , u are the gueen of my heart then the next min u are the evil in my soul

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    • Iron_Man s
      Iron_Man
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      Oh boy you're from Ghana

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      yes, I am

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    • Iron_Man s
      Iron_Man
      +1 y

      Do you have Christian faith in that country

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      maybe

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      but is hard

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    • Iron_Man s
      Iron_Man
      +1 y

      Ok

      ..

      Reply
  • grayfen
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    They say it's good to find a hard man

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  • lyfofdream
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    Need the sharp eyes to find them

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      y are u guys superhero

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  • TTSTBP
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    Maybe because you aren't a good woman.

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  • Anonymous
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    They're with the good women.

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  • grega239
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    688 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    same goes for women

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  • disgustingweebtrash
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    We don't exist

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    • mnity
      mnity
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      OK, but to me u do

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    why its is hard?

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      really

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
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      yeah really coz good guys are everywhere but it depends where you are searching them? In pubs and bars? or a church lol you can feel the difference here

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      the problem is i don't go out

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      honey then its something at your end.. maybe you are not giving anybody a chance or being too much tough to get

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      yeah, u are right but am working as a house help in someone house so I can't go out

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      You will find one online don't worry

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    • mnity
      mnity
      +1 y

      really, thanks

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      Yeah just have some good pics there :)

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