How to find a good man?

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I need help finding a man that will treat me right

aaron13547 · Accepted Answer

You make a list of all the things you want this good man to be.

Like strong, and trustworthy, and rich, and sexy and everything else that is you dream the limit is the sky making this list and you need to come up with everything or your persons not going to have it...

When you finish that list you have 3 chooses...

1 you become all those things on that and your person will find you
2 you settle for certain things on that list give and take because no one is all those things heck now don't think you can be how could someone else be all those things
3 you rip that list up and stop thinking about it all. Trust yourself love who you are now live life in the moment and let things be as they. When you chase and idea you never catch it. Your minds always one step ahead of you.

My advice is option 1 or 3... no one finds happiness in outcomes you find it in the journey. All or nothing being stuck in the middle sucks

HighValue · Accepted Answer

Wait until you are 18 and finish high school, then try to find someone that is 25 + that has no past of drug use, doesn't drink alcohol (shows they are responsible and doesn't cave to peer pressure), doesn't have any contact with exes, and is a normal person (not a liberal/democrat).

As long as you are a good person, with good morals, don't get tattoos, nose rings, short unnatural colored hair, don't get really fat, are trustworthy, and don't get involved with drugs or alcohol, and don't be promiscuous, you should be able to find a very good loyal partner once you are 18 +. It is that simple for many women. Women that are a 5 + in looks that are actual good people and are only willing to be with morally good men have plenty of opportunities to have a good partner.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Date often and date many. It is very rare to strike gold on the first try, as most men are trash. Stay positive, keep dating, and with some luck, the right man will walk into your life, usually when it is least expected.

Changiis07 · Accepted Answer

Just be yourself and get out more have fun.. the right one will notice you

ohsheeT · Answer

The best person to get the best answer from is your dad ask him.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Most people want someone like that but I think people are way too picky these days. Everyone has a checklist of their dream person. That person is a dream not real not reality. I've heard some women say they want a rich guy. Having been around rich people they are not usually very nice kind or caring. Rich guys run through women faster than I can chug a 20 oz bottle of mountain dew. Some are violent and very possessive. Any man from any social class can be that way. I think people need to look at reality and themselves. I'm not a 10 so I should never expect to be with a 10 ever. I would never ever approach a 10 ever. Most people these days only look at a person's appearance and not their personality.

Cormac995 · Answer

When you meet a guy that treats you with respect and does nice things for you unprompted that's when you know you've found a keeper because their love isn't conditional. If it was then they would want something out of you first or trying to create emotional debt.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Wait about a decade of teenage shenanigans before boys slowly become men and suddenly you’ll have many options

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly? Become his friend first. If you can last as friends with no expectations on eachother beyond that. That is your best bet.

If you can't, or don't want to do that. Then that is the biggest example of why you can't find good men. Because the best men WILL just start as friends with a woman.

capriVib · Answer

Amazon ran out of good men, so Walmart restocked them.

Hardon-Collider · Answer

You need to stop looking for a good man and become one yourself. If you want a good man, you must first be a good man. It is the most certain way to attract him.

OneViewpoint · Answer

You need help getting through middle school. Men are far away in your future.

Abbycado · Answer

Well, don’t rush it. You are still young. Do activities at school and get to know the guys.

Chelsdope0 · Answer

Best advice I can give you. Don’t date for love.

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't think there is very many good people anymore. It stands to reason why you struggle finding a "good man".

Staximus · Answer

Well if you are 14 then you're going to have to wait a few years for the boys to grow up and pull their head out of their ass.

LiamS95 · Answer

Aren't you a bit young to be lookig for a good man to treat you right?

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

You're pretending to be 14, do your homework.

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Know your value and don't compromise. Anyone who doesn't see it wasn't meant to be in the first place

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

What is right to you? What shall a man does so you say that he's treating you good 🤔

Anonymous · Answer

Take some initiative and you will find one.

exitseven · Answer

do your parents know you are on this site?

campbpey · Answer

meeeeeee I'm aliveaaaaaaaaa

Anonymous · Answer

no point in being a good man anymore

jahaims · Answer

You are a child. You would date a boy not a man.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Be a good woman !!!

Anonymous · Answer

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zombiewoof · Answer

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