Where to find a good man?

[Anonymous]

Last night I spoke to this horrible misogynistic guy who says women are used goods if they’re not married by their thirties or virgins. I think it was someone I know just being nasty to mess with me; but is this a common belief amongst guys in their thirties? Im not looking for an argument or debate, I’m just curious.

[Lliam]

Guys who think like that are immature, shallow, superficial boys who think women are inferior to men. They think a woman's only value is sex and/or producing offspring. Those guys typically think of themselves as "high value" or "alpha" but are the opposite.

Women who date them prove them right and get what they deserve.

I never placed ANY value on virginity and never dated one. I don't care about "body count". I never asked a girl what hers was and none ever asked mine. I like women with libidos who approach life with

I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. By far, the best one was 30-31 when I was 36-37. We lived together for over a year. I loved her with my heart and soul and she loved me but, unfortunately, we were not meant to spend the rest of our lives together. Circumstances forced us to part. It took me a year to pull myself together.

She had worked at a business that I frequented as part of my job when I asked her out.

Then I met my future wife when I was 40. She was 38. We got married two years later and have been happily married now for almost 26 years.

I met her through a pre-electronic dating service called Great Expectations where fakery was impossible. She was the sixth date that I went on from that ogranization.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

• They are busy walking to your right side so that you are safe from the high speed traffic.
• They are busy listening to your incessant talks so that you could feel somebody cares.
• They are busy choosing a dress (or a gift) out of a zillion colours to make you feel special.
• They are busy 9 to 5 making excel sheets so that they could take you out on weekends to a place they cannot afford.
• They are busy standing in a popcorn line while you are busy adjusting your 3D glasses.
• They are busy behind those DSLR cameras adjusting lenses so that they can capture your perfect smile.
• They are busy achieving their ambitious goals so that their parents could be proud of them.
• They are busy answering your questions on GirlsAskGuys so that it doesn’t go unanswered.
• They are just in front of you, you just need to open your eyes a little bit :)

[Asker]

That’s a fair point 😊👍

[bean2k21]

It's likely that your friend holds a view that is fairly common. Personally, I had zero interest in women my own age when I was in my thirties. Women between the ages of 18-25 are at their most beautiful, and don't need constant reassurance about it. I find that as I get older, women are more self-conscious about their looks and it's really annoying, especially when they still think they're hot shit and take selfies and post them and what not. You just really hope they grow up and stop wondering if they're sexy or not. But, if they would just act like a woman in their 30s it would literally be so much more attractive.

[DarkLegacy]

Well technically you are, you spend all your best years chasing after bad guys or alpha guys or guys based off looks and then try and settle with the opposite past 30. We are having none of it. I only go for women who are below 25 as they are the best and freshest and have the least baggage.

[Asker]

Fair enough. Each is entitled to their own opinions.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes but it happens to be fact. A study shows that 63% of young men are single compared to 35% of single women, that is because we older men are bagging those younger women. It means women in the 30s getting rejected or just used for sex.

[Asker]

The younger women are then prostituting themselves into marriage for money with older men they pretend to love, you mean? That’s a very cynical world view.

[DarkLegacy]

Nope we do not marry them lol

[Asker]

Then whom do you marry? You mean you use the young women and older women alike for sex but you call it marriage with the younger ones? Or that all women get used for sex, but sex with younger women happens more often, because they’re more innocent and physically youthful?

[Asker]

What do you even have to talk about with innocent young girls by your thirties? You’re neither young nor innocent yourselves. Is your priority marrying women as mere eye candy, with whom you have nothing in common?

[Asker]

When young virgin men hit on me wanting to be my boyfriend, I think, what would I use him for? He’d wear me out in bed and wouldn’t be very good at sex, looks like my little brother and has no life experience. Some pimply stammering young virgin? No thanks.

[AnonGiraffe]

You want a “good” man but they’re taken by the time their 30. Have to settle for a decent man. Where to find? We’ll go to where good people are. Church is a start.

[Asker]

Not all of them are taken.

[Anonymous]

I’m not saying it’s impossible but your chances do get slimmer as you get up there in age. I think because nature tends to make it that way that men tend to go after women who are much younger, fertile, their best years physically speaking.

[Anonymous]

There are plenty of good men to be found. Your personal challenge is twofold: 1) recognizing them when you see them, and 2) getting them to be romantically interested in you.

[MrCommodore]

No that is not a common belief at all.

[Asker]

I don’t know, as I haven’t dated anyone in years.

[Asker]

I’ve never really asked my male friends about their perspectives, either.

[MrCommodore]

Well perhaps it's time to remedy that. Why not?

[MrCommodore]

Why not date anyone in years I meant? Ask me anything you want

[Asker]

I guess I just never met the right man.

[MrCommodore]

Ok, lots of people are in a similar boat, it's understandable and quite common.

[Cheerfull009]

There are lot of guys on GAG, so try, you will find

[slatyb]

No, it's not.

[JamesRandiDebates]

The guy was right.