How do I find a good, quality man?

Question

So I'm so sick and tried of young men treating me like total shit because I'm not "slutty enough" (actual reason why I got rejected) and today it hit me when my crush was telling me he'd rather have his right hand and being sick on my new shoes whilst telling me how I should be living my life.

I deserve SO, SO much better, honestly I'm not one to big myself up but I'm aware I'm freaking hot af and I've always stayed humble about it in the past. I'm a extremely hard working, driven young woman who's intellectual and well mannered but unfortunately I can't ever seem to find a young man around my age with the same standards as me.

I think I'm better off dating older men between 26-28 as they usually have their shit together and are more knowledgeable of how to treat a good women. But because of my past fails attempts in relationships with men I'm very inexperienced and I've not even kiss a guy before nor dated one and I don't know how to be around older guys and are usually shocked when I tell them but I've never had a boyfriend.

ptwiryeo · Accepted Answer

I'm not certain you're going to find what you're looking for in men 26 to 28 either. You might get lucky, they do exist, but generally, men don't mature past the looking for sex phase until they're at least 30. And some men don't even mature at all. Beauty is sometimes more like a curse than a blessing. You probably have men throwing themselves at you and promising you the world but when you really get down to it, all they want is sex.

I, myself have always strived to be different than other men because I could see at a very young age how men flocked towards the pretty girls and how they were treated in return. I never wanted to be treated that way so although I would find myself desiring a woman because she was beautiful, I always needed more before I could consider dating her.

If you want a quality guy, you just need to be patient. They're very rare and when you find them, you may not find you feel a connection with them. Just because he's a quality guy, doesn't mean he's the right guy. Patience is everything and the type of man you're looking for will be a man of integrity. He will take the time to get to know you first. If you decide you want to take things further, he'll ask if you're certain, he'll hold you when you cry because he truly cares, and he will never try to take things further when they're making sure you're at the same level first.

I don't know that there's a formula for finding a guy like that, so all I can say is be patient, he does exist.

TripleAce · Accepted Answer

I bet because of this
"I'm freaking hot af and I've always stayed humble about it in the past. I'm a extremely hard working, driven young woman who's intellectual "

you think you deserve all that... and probably go for guys that seem like a good catch, physically... and that's where the problem is
drop you standards just a little... go for a guy that sees you as the best he can get, as a good catch.. like omg this girl is the best thing in my life...

then you'll have a good relationship... and no dating older men is a cop out... its exploiting your youth for a relationship

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Wait until your 25-26 years really trust me your 20 until 25 set a career goal or any goal. When I was 19 until 25 I was working like a horse so freaking hard bought my first apartment and planing to open my own business meanwhile I met the right guy while searching for apartments we share so much in common...
How to find a good quality man? Be patient that's the key , self first make your goals come true then he will come in your way.

Now , if you think my opinion is not for you, you can find any guy who you might think he has " qualities" but still down the road you might think you were wrong etc etc so at least be careful start dating around observe guys. Don't settle for one right away keep looking basically. That's what dating is about.

neverminditstess · Accepted Answer

You just gotta keep looking. Go to a place where you know intellectual men will be. Dating older men has benefits, but you'll also have to deal with the fact that they have many more responsibilities.

ChronicThinker · Answer

By being quality yourself. It’s pretty easy.

HereIbe · Answer

Okay, here is how my wife found me, and I like to think I'm a "good man". She went online. You will need a thick skin, but it can work. Here is how her profile started:
"A man who finds a wife finds a good thing." That was the FIRST line in her profile. She was 100% no bullshit, 100% stating EXACTLY what she wanted in very concrete terms. Then she backed it up. She had no tolerance for anyone who wasn't going to START on those terms. She had a specific time limit from meeting to goal, as well. If a man (me, in this instance) wasn't aboard with all that, he (I) was free to move on. She had to wade through a LOT of bullshit to get to a husband, but she persevered.

The method:
1) DEFINE what you want in totally concrete, non-emotional language. Don't say you want "someone to love", DEFINE what that means in real actions.
2) STATE IT UP-FRONT. Do not beat around the bush. Do not bother to "advertise" yourself. Just be completely honest. You don't have to say how much "fun" you are, for example. If you have an age limit, SAY IT.
3) STICK TO IT. That means being willing to let the "fun" guys or the guys who make your pussy wet just go--unless wet pussy and fucking actually is your real goal, of course.
4) Be willing to look at men who are TOTALLY UNLIKE any man you've been with before. I am the total opposite of every man that wet my wife's panties for years, years that she now admits were failures at trying to find someone. I'm a nerd. On the surface, I'm DULL as water much of the time. I am not "fun". I like to do math. I read theology and play D&D. On the other hand, I am constant. I am faithful. I am ADORING and APPRECIATIVE. At the end of the day, she has come to appreciate someone who really wants to be with her through everything, through her mood swings, her crazed schemes, through all she does. She was dating boys. She married a man.

PS: You might want to reconsider the age range to include men up to 45 or so (50 might be too much for you). Might, or might not.

Mr-Nice · Answer

The main thing is to not be hurried into sex. Get a guy who respects where you are right now. Another virgin might be a good alternative to an older guy. First love is always the deepest. Good to find a guy who will fall as hard you you inevitably will.
But if you do go with the older guy option, find out about his past relationships. You want a relationship guy not a fuckboy. Relationships guys will normally have a history of long relationships that span over 2 years. The most recent relationship should have ended over one year ago (You don't want him on the rebound). With older men be skepticle if he says hasn't ever had a long relationship or had one in the last 5 years. This could mean he doesn't want to commit and is playing the field.
Don't give him sex straight away. Make him chase you. Make him invest time in getting to know you. Make him show you how much he wants you before you give him the prize.
Find out his idea on marriage. Me that don't belive in marriage don't want commitment. Basicaly avoid losing your virginity on a one night stand to a manipulative play boy who knows all the right things to say. Actions speak louder than words.

FinalVow · Answer

looks are skin deep. not trying to doubt your claim to being intellectual but you should know that. personality matters perhaps that is your problem or lack there of as the case may be. Do you rely on your looks over your personality? Sounds like no. When "looking" for a "man" are you going based on looks (not talking about simple crap like oh that man is huge no thanks or oh that man is a twig hard pass) stuff like: Muscles, perfect hair, face, body, tan, etc etc etc etc etc etc? if so that is your problem. the "good looking" guys are generally very shitty people. It is the guys who are "average" or "below average" who are generally good men and have a matching personality. Also the phrase "I'm aware I'm freaking hot af" is a really fast way to contradict everything you typed. Not saying it is wrong to say it being self positive is a great way to build confidence and self esteem and what not. Though from what I have seen for some reason not keeping it to yourself makes you "shallow" and blah blah blah. good luck to you and a word of warning. if the phrase (I am a good guy comes out of anyone's mouth without a sincere explanation why they think so. run no truly good guy titles himself as one he tells people who he is and lets them decide.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly girl you juat have to keep looking. You sounds like a great girl who knows what you want and how much your worth. Keep looking through the trash till you find a man worth of you. As for looking for older guys that might be good but the problem is still there. They just want into your pants.

It is rare for someone to want your heart these days. Just recently with my last girl I got my first kiss and she did also. We waited till we were boyfriend and girlfriend before even doing more than using hands. Sadly we did not work out but I hope to find a girl like you who knows her worth and is waiting.

For guys I suggest telling them that your waiting till you get married. That gets rid of a lot of creeps. For the rest show them your serious about waiting and they will push and then run.

Keep you to yourself till a worth man comes along. Also do not worry about missing out on sex and kissing. It will be so much better when it is with someone you love than a fling or some one who does not fully love you.

ZakMyth · Answer

Age shouldn't matter (maturity speaking) I've known some dumb 30 year olds and smart younguns, and you can sometimes pick them out from one another by observing how they behave towards you, don't get me wrong us men do show off time to time when in presence of one who we admire,
But there's a difference, to tell from someone who is actually interested in YOU, and someone whos just into you, is noticing how their mind acts towards you vs when you're not around, or "if" they text (or tell,) you good morning or goodnight or what not, whenever they wake up. And how fast they try to "sexualize" the convo, whether they do or not. It's all just mix match opportunities, it all depends on the one your looking for, age shouldn't matter in this case, (besides the obvious too young is too young lol.)
Hence, I'm nineteen, I've been through things that some 30 year olds haven't, and it goes both ways too. If all that made sense then blessed be, if not well I hope it has helped you in the battles you go through and face.
-ZakMyth

KAF87 · Answer

I hate to be "that guy", but older men can be just the same. Also not all older men have their sh! t together.

Generally speaking older guys that are worth having will either not care about experience, or will be inexperienced themselves.

I wish I could say that dating is easy, or that practice makes perfect, but it is too random for that. I find it best to look for people who would accept who you are, make sure they are genuine. Trying to change or be something you are not never leads to happiness.

0112358 · Answer

I'm not sure if you will have better or worse luck with older guys. On average, more older guys are looking for a relationship versus hooking up. On the other hand, older guys pursuing younger women often want that to -avoid- being serious. My guess is it's sort of offsetting. Most young AND older guys will just want to fool around, with a minority wanting more.

I would say that relationship oriented older guys are even -less- inclined to wait around to get sexual though.

As for how they treat women, it's probably … more consistent? You are more likely maybe to find young guys who are just self absorbed, but also more likely to find young guys who would do everything for you.

4nication · Answer

"I'm a extremely hard working, driven young woman who's intellectual and well mannered"

No offence, but I don't think any of these are that important to guys. Sure, they're better than being lazy, dumb, and rude.

But frankly, looks are (as you probably well know) important to guys. And also that you're fun to be around. Both men and women are more attracted to rule breakers than to "good girls" or "good boys".

Regarding finding a good guy... I think older dudes can be just as sleazy as younger ones. I don't know... I feel like if I observe men, I can usually form a first impression of whether this guy is trustworthy or not. Slimeballs just have a sort of deadness about them. Like all the bad stuff they've done has left its mark on them. So I guess you don't want that. But you're a woman, so you probably still want some danger to spice things up, am I right?

Anonymous · Answer

Talk to women who are on dating sites, and dating apps. It doesn't matter what age the guys are, they just want girls who fuck. They don't want a relationship. Why would they want that? Those days are over.
They say that a woman over 40, has a better chance of getting struck by lightning, than getting married.
Back in the day... the only way a guy could get laid, was to get into a relationship. But times have changed. Now women are on Tinder and just DTF. So why would a guy go through the pain of a relationship?

HRiva · Answer

See you should be confident about yourself and yes you are right you should never let others opinions about you make u feel bad... but when you know about yurself you should not speak in words ( exp i am hot or i am well mannered etc) here you have to be mature. You know who you are thats really great and good and you are humble too thats good... and regarding guys i will say a mature guy will understand you ( maturity doesent mean age ) i mean otherwise emotionally mature guy and all u have to do is to be yourself but you dont have to proove to others by words your actions will proove them and yes always believe in yurself and always stay humble and good :)

jean_A · Answer

You say you are not full of yourself. But you are full of yourself. But I don't care. You are 20 guys still try to figure out the irrational behavior ow women that age. Give them some time sheeess. General advice dont go for the top 10%douches. And take responsibility for your situation and behavior. Also approach man yourself. Try to find how you can identify good man. Try different types and try different attitudes. it's really just the same as anything in your life actually. Although I'm not a whoman. So I cannot tell for sure how you experience it.

jmorrow · Answer

You are gorgeous and you're still young. Unfortunately there are probably more assholes out there than there are good guys. I don't normally stick to this, but it's a very good way to keep from finding assholes... don't jump into relationships. If you find someone you like, befriend them. Find out who they are personally before wanting something more. The best way to know how they will treat you is by how they act towards other women. If they degrade women in general, they'll never fully respect you. Just be patient and look for the guys who are humble and respectful to everyone. They may not be as flirtatious or confident as the asshole types, but once you get to know them, it will show. Keep your chin up, darlin'. The good guys are out there.

attics · Answer

Aside from finding a 'nice Christian boy' I don't really know what to say. It's easy to say that you should wait and that the right guy will come along, but I doubt you want to hear that. There's not much else I can offer. There are nice guys out there (and a lot of them even come without fedoras and neckbeards).
Don't stand for any treatment you don't deserve, and don't change how you are to suit other guys. I'm sure you knew that already but a lot of people need to be reaffirmed of that [:
Good luck for you

jessicake · Answer

Okay, first I wanna say YES GIRL REALIZE YOUR TRUE WORTH! I don't know you but I’m proud of you for taking that step! second I wanna say, I’m not sure where you’re finding these men that sound so awful, but there are men out there who will be willing to treat you the way you deserve. I suggest you try and make friends first to get to know them without having that extra layer people often add to themselves to look good in front of other when attracted. Keep believing in yourself!

Anonymous · Answer

Actually in my opinion, I'd better wait and not be so desperate to find one, but men this quality usually won't approache you first unless he knows you like him, so it'd be quite difficult to find them. My advice is go and live your life you can do without a man and if you think you found him approach him and don't wait for him, and most importantly take it slowly because most guys are jerks but they try to put an act in front of girls, so wait till you know everything about him, and don't compromise and lower your standards for anyone, because given time they will eventually turn back to the jerks they are.

WhereAmI · Answer

Well I won't be flying our to England anytime soon so...

Actually, I can't even fly due to my tinnitus possibly getting worse. I do plan to take a boat trip on the Queen Mary to London within a couple years though. That's a long time so you'll have to survive without me babe. lol

Realistically, don't be shy about being inexperienced and just find a nicer older guy.

Sarisalive · Answer

You are being honest with yourself and valuing yourself, and their is nothing wrong with that. You shouldn't rush into relationships with others that you don't know very well. Become friends with them first before even thinking about dating them. Also, you should try not to fall in love so quickly.

Idontknow012 · Answer

I say the same for girls, nowdays they are all sluty and only care about parties, if you are rich, painting the hair blonde and having big nails...

I hate discos so much that if the hottest girls ever invite me i will reject, just want to watch movies in my couch

Bluedream13 · Answer

Oh, you wanna have respect for yourself? Fuck you, eat shit, you need to be a slut --- says the world. The world as it exists today is run by satan

You have the right idea, older men generally will have their shit more together, but keep in mind that you don't want one of these assholes grown old either. There exist young men who would treat you right.

If you wanna find a hot guy that isn't shallow as fuck... well it will mean a lot of sifting. Focus more on personality and look for someone with strong moral character, isn't that what women care about anyway and us men are supposed to be the shallow ones? Lol

mel1695 · Answer

Once you find the answer to your question, give me a call. Haha I am asking myself the same thing.

About dating older men, I’ve dated older and younger and I got the admit, the men sucked either way. So I don’t think age got to do with how they will treat you. It’s about the person.

I need to rethink where I find my men.

hitMe99 · Answer

Girl. You do deserve better. And yes usually with older men comes stability. Finding a younger man whose stable and willing to like you without sexual tendencies.. is rare but possible. I would say you have a better chance with the the older crowd.. just be careful out there miss

Saray · Answer

Gj on the happiness with yourself part , first step towards anything good in life. Fun fact as a 16 year old i had a 2/3 months relationship with a 31 year old (looked stunning) ... Why? Well , when most girls want clubs , booze , adventure at 16 , i wanted to discuss mythology , dostoyevsky , E. A. P. , and so on... Dont rush it , lay back , enjoy the moment, and its going to happen by itself!! by the way. Try with shy guys , they tend to be nice and respectfull once you break through the shy barrier.

doitson · Answer

Wait, why have you never kissed someone? I would assume maybe 2nd date would involve a quick kiss at least.
I get most of where you're at and i agree with it. No need to be slutty. But why so extremely reserved?
A 26-28 year old won't deal with such a reserved sexuality, i promise that.
It also seems you're trying for the bad boy type if they're getting angry for not putting out. In saying that, if you like someone and go on a date or 2, i would suggest taking a kiss.
Maturity doesn't come from age as much as it does the individual.

ipecaclust · Answer

Lol ego much? No one "deserves" anything. Especially no one "deserves" a "good quality man" just cuz they're hot. Lmao. I'm sure there's plenty wrong w you just like the rest of the world. Your vagina is not special. You are not special. If you want a good guy maybe you should stop looking for one cuz chances are you wreak of desperation and that's why you attract shit. Better yourself. Stop worrying about what guy you're gonna find. Its not that important. You don't actually need a guy. No one actually needs a relationship. Have friends and have sex. Enjoy it. Stop over thinking everything and forcing a relationship to happen cuz that's not how good ones work out.

DiegoO · Answer

You are very attractive physically, I am not sure how is your behavior but there are many, many people out there. Be patient, you'll find the right guy.

I forgot to ad, age doesn't mean much if we are talking about emotional and economical stability. There are exceptions. Perhaps you should ask yourself what are you looking in a guy, what's that thing that you would like that man to have. If you don't know what type of SO you want in your life, it's about time you ask yourself. Surely that person will not be a 100% what you had in mind, at least it will be someone you had in mind and not a random choice that came along.

lernulo · Answer

I dont think that giving you value is bad. Bad analysis is bad, and by what I see, it isn't the case.
Its true you look a but reluctant to all sex topics, and on my opinion you should work about it.
Sex isn't obligatory, but its one of the most enjoyment things you can make with a boy friend, if you love him, and he respects you, which is the thing I think you lack.
The first thing I advice here is something you are already doing. Selfknowledge, selfvalue and taking consciusness about that not everyone deserve being with you. Good for it.
Now the problems begin, you want a replic of you but with more or equal standard so it doesn't look to work.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

What do you think is a hobby a good man should have? try it (e. g. if it's reading, join a book club). It doesn't guarantee you will find a good boyfriend but it helps narrow down your search as long as you truly know what you want. (btw I am knowledgeable about certain things and I know how to treat most good women :) )

Clarke498 · Answer

Well being a gentle has died out a couple years ago. People have lost their manners, but there's still hope out there. Find a guy that deserves you. Might be hard, but when it's done, it'll be worth it.

I'm not the fuckboy type. Couldn't be, and even if i could i don't think i would. I may be good looking (have no idea) but my body ain't perfect so i think i might be under your standards... Even so i'm not the club, partying, loudmouth, fuckboy type. I'm more of a chilling in my house-watching tv and movies-DGAF kind of guy. I have a few relationships with girls that are great, but in general a lot of them ain't for me. Too much drama and such. I guess what i'm trying to say with this non-sense message is that everyone is their own person. You should find one that fits for you. Even though the market nowadays is pretty crappy. Your perfect mate might be where you don't expect.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m in the exact position. But don’t think there will be a difference with older men because I only involve myself with men 25-28 and they’re no different!!! They also want sex and hook ups. It’s horrible these days!
I feel like I’m going to be single forever because I’m not at the bars and clubs Thursday through Monday and sleeping with three men at a time!!!
Like sorry I’m not a slut!!!

donnny2367764 · Answer

You're in this circus yourself... social media I mean... become the ringleader and pay absolutely zero interest on both reading or replying to such delusional fuks on here... you are a doll.. but even dolls have a right to be happy with a real guy.

Give it time... and learn from your experiences.. don't let words get the best of you

Astraea · Answer

Yeah younger guys are usually not very mature... still boys and not men. There are some exceptions & I've known a few. I'm crushing on someone 9 years older than me, those extra years make a big difference... he's not selfishly all about himself.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah it might be difficult you need to break your existing social circle, and find good intelligent and respectable individuals to associate with. If exploration does not work, maybe the nunnery will solve your problem. Don't let boys be nasty too you, you do deserve better. You could do an online romance, use Skype.

Carley99 · Answer

Older men are just as disappointing it has nothing to do with age, if a man wants to treat you right he will and I've realized that everyone's definition of a good man is different. Good 🤞luck

mark881 · Answer

Unfortunatly, part and parcel or finding a good man is filtering out all of the shit ones first, its hard work and time consuming, but a good man will always stand by you wether good or bad, and unfortunatly i am judgmental of my own gender to say some men (and women included) can cover up very well their own true colours. I've lost a lot of time this way with past women i have been with and dated.

DanielOfTheNorth · Answer

If you are looking for marriage material, look for college graduate, conservative, Christian men. I hope the best for you, and I pray you will find exactly who you are looking for

pitzi · Answer

Maybe you should look in other place, for examples defintely not bars and parties and such... and yeah usually older men are way more qualitied than young guys... try and go to new places where you can meet new people, and meet new guys there

Jalaco · Answer

People can be jerks. Dating older guys might be the right choice. As for how, well you can be passive and let guys pick up on you, try online dating, or be aggressive and just ask a guy you like out. You have to put yourself in situations where you can meet a guy. What kind of things do you want someone you are dating to be into? I'd you want them to be into fitness, try and meet a guy at the gym. So on and so forth. If you want more tips or specific tips just PM me.

johnsmith2162 · Answer

Men can be aholes. I would say open your eyes to new things or people. I have much to say about the women of the world as they seem to only want more when they get what they want. A good girl is hard to find. Believe me I've been looking. I've been treated badly but still have a positive outlook hoping for a good woman to see me as well. I say keep a good positive feeling as God always provides us with what we need

Ceramic_bloke · Answer

Shop around. It's the only way you're gonna do it.
There will be a lot for guys out there who will treat you well, but a lot of them are too nervous to approach for fear of ruining their chances.
Make the first move and just see what people are like.

I'm afraid there's no surefire way to find the right guy, other than to look for him.

VincentLaw · Answer

If you feel you deserve people or behaviors you're never going to get them. You have to remind yourself that you deserve nothing. You simply, genuinely want it. That's how you move forward and work to acquire those things

Ayer93 · Answer

First of all, you need to filter well. Clearly you're complaining about your own choices. There are good guys in the world, but probably not the ones you're attracted to as much. The way to find someone that has chemistry with you is to go places of your interest. There you'll find people with similar interests and that's always a start at finding a spark. The main thing is to filter though. Learn of their intentions before being with them.

Smegskull · Answer

You don't "deserve" better, that's narcissistic entitlement talking, but you sound like you could earn better.
Remember good men won't approach you (feminism has drilled into us that approaching women is misogynistic harassment) so you will have to look for and approach them.

Sociopathvictim · Answer

Errr you need to look where you’d not expect them to be. Good quality men aren’t looking for a girlfriend and aren’t out trying to find one, you see the ones who aren’t looking are building empires like me and if you find me your next step will be to actually convince that I should date you because I’ll be the most socially awkward person :)

Calixx · Answer

They are out there, it just takes some time. Out of the several men I’ve dated, only 2 were quality men - one of those including my current bf! A lot of guys are really immature, it takes a little longer to find a more mature one :)

Dchrls78104 · Answer

To find a good quality man:
1. Look at the mirror. What kind of person are you really, on the inside? What do you, deep down, expect from a man?
2. Read Proverbs 31:10-31 in the Bible. They talk about qualities of a perfect wife and it is only right for you to look for such qualities in a man. But first you need to manifest them yourself.

Candy45 · Answer

You are pretty young, just keep working on yourself and what makes you happy and do not lower your standards, you dont need a man by your side. The right one will come along and you will know it, meanwhile have fun with the wrong ones lol

HOAAH · Answer

Try your local church or friends of friends, or family friends. Or family of friends... or meeting at a college club or something that you have similar interests with.

dkking · Answer

Guys tend to be jerks is what I hear a lot of women say. The qualities I do for me and many women tell me I'm a good guy is I listen I will stay with you until you feel safe and don't need me anymore. I treat you like you owned a castle. I spend as much time with you as I can.

soccerking · Answer

I always say "be the right person." If you are the right guy will come along. You just have to be patient.

Location! Be in the right places. Bars are an example of the wrong place. Church is an example of a good place to be (here people are attempting to live by a higher standard).

Hanging around good friends that have good friends you can meet.

AlienChickk · Answer

You are in a tough situation, because older men typically want someone with experience. Then younger guys just want to mess around. Good luck, I'm sure you'll find the man for you.

SAxMitch · Answer

If you are only looking at aesthetics in a partner, such as 6 foot and mussels, then you tend towards a more immature person when they are around their late teens early 20's (own experience I am happy to be corrected) as they are still used to being with the 'Lads' and when groups of boys/men are together it is so about having fun and worrying about small stuff later.

Demr04 · Answer

Most men in their 20s are mediocry. Im know because most of my equals are lazy, dont take anything serious, everything is a "dont be so square". Their max aspirentions are have a good time but not have a good future. And they still aren't define their core values. So the best is you try to date some man who is better than you. No less.

Zaneriley · Answer

True girl some men are self centred I think 80 percent are but life give you time to see beyond the gray spaces you just have to look long and use your female charisma to get what you really want and need hang in there time heals all the shit and bring new beginnings.

usafguy108 · Answer

A great guy will not approach you out of the blue. It has to come. e natural and just happy. Don't be so impatient. That will get you trouble. Also I have to admit around the age 26-28, I was still young for a real relationship. I was too busy getting other life things figured out. By the time I got those things figured out I was 31 and having too much damn fun for have a relationship. You'll just have to find a guys that's 35+. We're pretty ready by then 😁. Great guys are experienced

brianbuffalo14216 · Answer

I don't think you will be better off with an older guy. We don't mature that much...

Anyways, just do activities where you can be around the type of guy you want to date. Try like joining a bar sponsored softball team.

Also, based on your profile pic, you really are hot AF.

SaintRaghu · Answer

Well when it comes to me, I like maturity in women, I don’t like man haters or women who carry on their sexist feminist agendas of self inflicted oppression and man hating indoctrinated to them by society, social media and the government. It’s absurd, it’s like paying a therapist to roast you instead of providing emotional support. Apart from that, I don’t like getting bored in the bedroom either so they gotta be wild hahhahaha🤣🤷🏻‍♂️.

happyfox · Answer

With some work and dedication, online dating can be rewarding, I found my boyfriend on POF and were living togeather

Rycer · Answer

It is common for a woman to find older men attractive. It takes men longer to mature then women and experience is powerful for a person to be a good leader. Hold to your values and your good man will find you.

Daechir · Answer

Unfortunately, the supply of quality men and women is running dangerously low these days. I hope you absolutely never compromise your standards for some piece of shit. Keep up your hard work, and never settle. Godspeed.

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