How do I find a quality high value man?

[PrincessC16]

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Did you really ask me what I have to offer a man? I'm not so worn out piece of trash to be thrown to the side and live the rest of my life unhappy. You need to at 36 figure out what a high value man is.

[bowenw]

Be persistent. I find meeting high value people usually comes by accident when we least expect it. Also, don't focus only on the ones that are extroverted as the quiet ones can also be high value. Continue living your life but be sure you are out doing things where you interact with as many people as possible.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[HungTexan]

Be a high value woman, have like minded friends, and you’ll likely find a high value man if you’re in the right social network.

[PrincessC16]

Thank you

[ohsheeT]

First of all you have to know how to read a man. When meeting or talking. If they are bullshiting you. Most will tell you the truth in the same sentence.

And to be honest I don't have a clue. Where to find them. I think now adays we just get lucky once in awhile when we are looking. . well for women for me but it's the same for me as you.. and I won't use a dating app.

[PrincessC16]

Thank you

[ohsheeT]

Thank you

[HawkPerception]

Before answering your question, I'd like to know what a high value man is to you?

[Anonymous]

The most important prerequisite is that you yourself have to be a quality high value woman.

The problem for many women today is that they think they are high value but they're actually not, because they judge themselves by the wrong things. Women tend to judge their own value based on the same factors they use to judge a man's value, but men care about different things than women do. Countless times I've seen women say they are high value because they are well educated, have a high paying job, drive a nice car, own a home... all things that are important to women in a man, but that men care nothing about.

[PrincessC16]

Got it! Thank you!

[Sunrising]

I totally agree with everything you said. Us males need to stick together !
But I think I prefer the women's important prerequisite?

[Sunrising]

Am I a quality high value man? Of course I am !

I say take an interest in my hobbies and interests, and go to the places I go to. And you've found him !

[PrincessC16]

Yes, taking interest in a man's hobbies and spending quality time with him is one to get to know a person.

[incorrected]

By being a high value woman. You're 46, so it's a bit late to be asking that question to be honest.

[PrincessC16]

I think not. I have many more years ahead of me. I have made many mistakes in the past and I am learning from them. There's always room for growth.

[incorrected]

Your looks are fading, your fertility will be in the tank. What do you have to offer? Now is not the time for wishy-washy hopey-wopey notions that your slack personal growth is going to bag you a "high value" man. You might get a decent bloke, but high value? Come to think of it, what are you meaning when you say "high value"?

[Shiprex]

You find a man and build him up to be the high value you seek. Men get to be who they are inherently with the woman that's meant to be with them.

[PrincessC16]

Sorry, but at 46 I'm done w/ investing sooo much time and money. At my age a man should be grown. Hell I need one stronger than me. I have put 15 years into this relationship and I made a bad investment.😫

[Shiprex]

What you're seeking is someone already established then and when they're that way they can likely choose from the full plethora of 20s to 40s women. Having been through a long term relationship means at least you know what should and shouldn't be ok. FINDING one will require a heck of a lot of something special that they SEEK that will be additional to their life.

[Notherndude84]

Stay off Tinder, all you’re likely to get there is HSV.
Not an observation from personal experience lol

[PrincessC16]

Yep for sure 😀

[Anonymous]

You have to be very nice to him and he will come. Buy him flowers too.

[PrincessC16]

Ok, lol

[Opinion Owner]

*holds your hand* now go get some rest, honey. *kisses your hand* night, night.

[Anonymous]

Go to China, there one child policy led to generations of mostly men. So men have to be on their best behavior to attract a mate.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Stay away from Republicans !!!

[PrincessC16]

LMAO 🤣🤣

[Notherndude84]

MAGA men will definitely abuse women.

[PrincessC16]

What does that stand for?

[beefcakebradybatson]

@Notherndude84 Wouldn't shock me. MAGA is about toxic masculinity.

[Notherndude84]

It Stands for Make America Great Again.

Apparently it’s a rally cry for the far right to march backwards when racism, sexism, Xenophobia and classism ran rampant.

[PrincessC16]

Ok, ty

[beefcakebradybatson]

@Notherndude84 Back to the 1920's, if not earlier.

[GAGsucksballs89170]

stop looking