Once you find the answer to your question, give me a call. Haha I am asking myself the same thing.
About dating older men, I’ve dated older and younger and I got the admit, the men sucked either way. So I don’t think age got to do with how they will treat you. It’s about the person.
Girl. You do deserve better. And yes usually with older men comes stability. Finding a younger man whose stable and willing to like you without sexual tendencies.. is rare but possible. I would say you have a better chance with the the older crowd.. just be careful out there miss
Gj on the happiness with yourself part , first step towards anything good in life. Fun fact as a 16 year old i had a 2/3 months relationship with a 31 year old (looked stunning) ... Why? Well , when most girls want clubs , booze , adventure at 16 , i wanted to discuss mythology , dostoyevsky , E. A. P. , and so on... Dont rush it , lay back , enjoy the moment, and its going to happen by itself!! by the way. Try with shy guys , they tend to be nice and respectfull once you break through the shy barrier.
Wait, why have you never kissed someone? I would assume maybe 2nd date would involve a quick kiss at least. I get most of where you're at and i agree with it. No need to be slutty. But why so extremely reserved? A 26-28 year old won't deal with such a reserved sexuality, i promise that. It also seems you're trying for the bad boy type if they're getting angry for not putting out. In saying that, if you like someone and go on a date or 2, i would suggest taking a kiss. Maturity doesn't come from age as much as it does the individual.
I agree but I've never gone on a date before and I don't go for bad boys at all, can't stand them. I always go for the good guy's but then again no one's perfect and they end up disappointing me
Lol ego much? No one "deserves" anything. Especially no one "deserves" a "good quality man" just cuz they're hot. Lmao. I'm sure there's plenty wrong w you just like the rest of the world. Your vagina is not special. You are not special. If you want a good guy maybe you should stop looking for one cuz chances are you wreak of desperation and that's why you attract shit. Better yourself. Stop worrying about what guy you're gonna find. Its not that important. You don't actually need a guy. No one actually needs a relationship. Have friends and have sex. Enjoy it. Stop over thinking everything and forcing a relationship to happen cuz that's not how good ones work out.
You are very attractive physically, I am not sure how is your behavior but there are many, many people out there. Be patient, you'll find the right guy.
I forgot to ad, age doesn't mean much if we are talking about emotional and economical stability. There are exceptions. Perhaps you should ask yourself what are you looking in a guy, what's that thing that you would like that man to have. If you don't know what type of SO you want in your life, it's about time you ask yourself. Surely that person will not be a 100% what you had in mind, at least it will be someone you had in mind and not a random choice that came along.
I dont think that giving you value is bad. Bad analysis is bad, and by what I see, it isn't the case. Its true you look a but reluctant to all sex topics, and on my opinion you should work about it. Sex isn't obligatory, but its one of the most enjoyment things you can make with a boy friend, if you love him, and he respects you, which is the thing I think you lack. The first thing I advice here is something you are already doing. Selfknowledge, selfvalue and taking consciusness about that not everyone deserve being with you. Good for it. Now the problems begin, you want a replic of you but with more or equal standard so it doesn't look to work.
What do you think is a hobby a good man should have? try it (e. g. if it's reading, join a book club). It doesn't guarantee you will find a good boyfriend but it helps narrow down your search as long as you truly know what you want. (btw I am knowledgeable about certain things and I know how to treat most good women :) )
Well being a gentle has died out a couple years ago. People have lost their manners, but there's still hope out there. Find a guy that deserves you. Might be hard, but when it's done, it'll be worth it.
I'm not the fuckboy type. Couldn't be, and even if i could i don't think i would. I may be good looking (have no idea) but my body ain't perfect so i think i might be under your standards... Even so i'm not the club, partying, loudmouth, fuckboy type. I'm more of a chilling in my house-watching tv and movies-DGAF kind of guy. I have a few relationships with girls that are great, but in general a lot of them ain't for me. Too much drama and such. I guess what i'm trying to say with this non-sense message is that everyone is their own person. You should find one that fits for you. Even though the market nowadays is pretty crappy. Your perfect mate might be where you don't expect.
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I’m in the exact position. But don’t think there will be a difference with older men because I only involve myself with men 25-28 and they’re no different!!! They also want sex and hook ups. It’s horrible these days! I feel like I’m going to be single forever because I’m not at the bars and clubs Thursday through Monday and sleeping with three men at a time!!! Like sorry I’m not a slut!!!
You're in this circus yourself... social media I mean... become the ringleader and pay absolutely zero interest on both reading or replying to such delusional fuks on here... you are a doll.. but even dolls have a right to be happy with a real guy.
Give it time... and learn from your experiences.. don't let words get the best of you
Yeah younger guys are usually not very mature... still boys and not men. There are some exceptions & I've known a few. I'm crushing on someone 9 years older than me, those extra years make a big difference... he's not selfishly all about himself.
Yeah it might be difficult you need to break your existing social circle, and find good intelligent and respectable individuals to associate with. If exploration does not work, maybe the nunnery will solve your problem. Don't let boys be nasty too you, you do deserve better. You could do an online romance, use Skype.
Older men are just as disappointing it has nothing to do with age, if a man wants to treat you right he will and I've realized that everyone's definition of a good man is different. Good 🤞luck
Unfortunatly, part and parcel or finding a good man is filtering out all of the shit ones first, its hard work and time consuming, but a good man will always stand by you wether good or bad, and unfortunatly i am judgmental of my own gender to say some men (and women included) can cover up very well their own true colours. I've lost a lot of time this way with past women i have been with and dated.
Maybe you should look in other place, for examples defintely not bars and parties and such... and yeah usually older men are way more qualitied than young guys... try and go to new places where you can meet new people, and meet new guys there
People can be jerks. Dating older guys might be the right choice. As for how, well you can be passive and let guys pick up on you, try online dating, or be aggressive and just ask a guy you like out. You have to put yourself in situations where you can meet a guy. What kind of things do you want someone you are dating to be into? I'd you want them to be into fitness, try and meet a guy at the gym. So on and so forth. If you want more tips or specific tips just PM me.
Men can be aholes. I would say open your eyes to new things or people. I have much to say about the women of the world as they seem to only want more when they get what they want. A good girl is hard to find. Believe me I've been looking. I've been treated badly but still have a positive outlook hoping for a good woman to see me as well. I say keep a good positive feeling as God always provides us with what we need
Shop around. It's the only way you're gonna do it. There will be a lot for guys out there who will treat you well, but a lot of them are too nervous to approach for fear of ruining their chances. Make the first move and just see what people are like.
I'm afraid there's no surefire way to find the right guy, other than to look for him.
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Once you find the answer to your question, give me a call. Haha I am asking myself the same thing.
About dating older men, I’ve dated older and younger and I got the admit, the men sucked either way. So I don’t think age got to do with how they will treat you. It’s about the person.
I need to rethink where I find my men.
Girl. You do deserve better. And yes usually with older men comes stability. Finding a younger man whose stable and willing to like you without sexual tendencies.. is rare but possible. I would say you have a better chance with the the older crowd.. just be careful out there miss
Gj on the happiness with yourself part , first step towards anything good in life. Fun fact as a 16 year old i had a 2/3 months relationship with a 31 year old (looked stunning) ... Why? Well , when most girls want clubs , booze , adventure at 16 , i wanted to discuss mythology , dostoyevsky , E. A. P. , and so on... Dont rush it , lay back , enjoy the moment, and its going to happen by itself!! by the way. Try with shy guys , they tend to be nice and respectfull once you break through the shy barrier.
Wait, why have you never kissed someone? I would assume maybe 2nd date would involve a quick kiss at least.
I get most of where you're at and i agree with it. No need to be slutty. But why so extremely reserved?
A 26-28 year old won't deal with such a reserved sexuality, i promise that.
It also seems you're trying for the bad boy type if they're getting angry for not putting out. In saying that, if you like someone and go on a date or 2, i would suggest taking a kiss.
Maturity doesn't come from age as much as it does the individual.
I agree but I've never gone on a date before and I don't go for bad boys at all, can't stand them. I always go for the good guy's but then again no one's perfect and they end up disappointing me
Lol ego much? No one "deserves" anything. Especially no one "deserves" a "good quality man" just cuz they're hot. Lmao. I'm sure there's plenty wrong w you just like the rest of the world. Your vagina is not special. You are not special. If you want a good guy maybe you should stop looking for one cuz chances are you wreak of desperation and that's why you attract shit. Better yourself. Stop worrying about what guy you're gonna find. Its not that important. You don't actually need a guy. No one actually needs a relationship. Have friends and have sex. Enjoy it. Stop over thinking everything and forcing a relationship to happen cuz that's not how good ones work out.
You are very attractive physically, I am not sure how is your behavior but there are many, many people out there. Be patient, you'll find the right guy.
I forgot to ad, age doesn't mean much if we are talking about emotional and economical stability. There are exceptions. Perhaps you should ask yourself what are you looking in a guy, what's that thing that you would like that man to have. If you don't know what type of SO you want in your life, it's about time you ask yourself. Surely that person will not be a 100% what you had in mind, at least it will be someone you had in mind and not a random choice that came along.
I dont think that giving you value is bad. Bad analysis is bad, and by what I see, it isn't the case.
Its true you look a but reluctant to all sex topics, and on my opinion you should work about it.
Sex isn't obligatory, but its one of the most enjoyment things you can make with a boy friend, if you love him, and he respects you, which is the thing I think you lack.
The first thing I advice here is something you are already doing. Selfknowledge, selfvalue and taking consciusness about that not everyone deserve being with you. Good for it.
Now the problems begin, you want a replic of you but with more or equal standard so it doesn't look to work.
What do you think is a hobby a good man should have? try it (e. g. if it's reading, join a book club). It doesn't guarantee you will find a good boyfriend but it helps narrow down your search as long as you truly know what you want. (btw I am knowledgeable about certain things and I know how to treat most good women :) )
Well being a gentle has died out a couple years ago. People have lost their manners, but there's still hope out there. Find a guy that deserves you. Might be hard, but when it's done, it'll be worth it.
I'm not the fuckboy type. Couldn't be, and even if i could i don't think i would. I may be good looking (have no idea) but my body ain't perfect so i think i might be under your standards... Even so i'm not the club, partying, loudmouth, fuckboy type. I'm more of a chilling in my house-watching tv and movies-DGAF kind of guy. I have a few relationships with girls that are great, but in general a lot of them ain't for me. Too much drama and such. I guess what i'm trying to say with this non-sense message is that everyone is their own person. You should find one that fits for you. Even though the market nowadays is pretty crappy. Your perfect mate might be where you don't expect.
I’m in the exact position. But don’t think there will be a difference with older men because I only involve myself with men 25-28 and they’re no different!!! They also want sex and hook ups. It’s horrible these days!
I feel like I’m going to be single forever because I’m not at the bars and clubs Thursday through Monday and sleeping with three men at a time!!!
Like sorry I’m not a slut!!!
You're in this circus yourself... social media I mean... become the ringleader and pay absolutely zero interest on both reading or replying to such delusional fuks on here... you are a doll.. but even dolls have a right to be happy with a real guy.
Give it time... and learn from your experiences.. don't let words get the best of you
Yeah younger guys are usually not very mature... still boys and not men. There are some exceptions & I've known a few. I'm crushing on someone 9 years older than me, those extra years make a big difference... he's not selfishly all about himself.
I wish you were crushing on me have you ever been with an older guy DM me please
Oh babe I have a secret to tell you DM me please
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@kingdong1
He's my crush
Lucky guy
You're my crush
Yeah it might be difficult you need to break your existing social circle, and find good intelligent and respectable individuals to associate with. If exploration does not work, maybe the nunnery will solve your problem. Don't let boys be nasty too you, you do deserve better. You could do an online romance, use Skype.
Older men are just as disappointing it has nothing to do with age, if a man wants to treat you right he will and I've realized that everyone's definition of a good man is different. Good 🤞luck
Unfortunatly, part and parcel or finding a good man is filtering out all of the shit ones first, its hard work and time consuming, but a good man will always stand by you wether good or bad, and unfortunatly i am judgmental of my own gender to say some men (and women included) can cover up very well their own true colours. I've lost a lot of time this way with past women i have been with and dated.
If you are looking for marriage material, look for college graduate, conservative, Christian men.
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I hope the best for you, and I pray you will find exactly who you are looking for
are you the nazi or something... college grads, conservative Christina men LOL
dude... talk about a bubble though
Maybe you should look in other place, for examples defintely not bars and parties and such... and yeah usually older men are way more qualitied than young guys... try and go to new places where you can meet new people, and meet new guys there
People can be jerks. Dating older guys might be the right choice. As for how, well you can be passive and let guys pick up on you, try online dating, or be aggressive and just ask a guy you like out. You have to put yourself in situations where you can meet a guy. What kind of things do you want someone you are dating to be into? I'd you want them to be into fitness, try and meet a guy at the gym. So on and so forth. If you want more tips or specific tips just PM me.
Men can be aholes. I would say open your eyes to new things or people. I have much to say about the women of the world as they seem to only want more when they get what they want. A good girl is hard to find. Believe me I've been looking. I've been treated badly but still have a positive outlook hoping for a good woman to see me as well. I say keep a good positive feeling as God always provides us with what we need
Shop around. It's the only way you're gonna do it.
There will be a lot for guys out there who will treat you well, but a lot of them are too nervous to approach for fear of ruining their chances.
Make the first move and just see what people are like.
I'm afraid there's no surefire way to find the right guy, other than to look for him.