Where do I find good men?

[Anonymous]

Men that want to marry you and have kids and be monogamous

[Wallfly]

You have to be someone they can trust to not:

- use exclusive control of their sexual health as a bargaining token

- take their kids away

- take half of everything they invested in

- abandon them in hard times, or make fun of their issues

Unfortunately, feminism has made women seem like the least trustworthy people on earth. Like, they'll throw you under the bus in a heart beat. Like women don't care about mens issues or lived experiences at all.

There are plenty of good men out there, but they're generally just doing their own shit and avoiding women.

If you want to prove you're trustworthy, it's pretty basic:
1. admit that your clit is dumb. We admit our penises our dumb, just fucking admit that women who listen to their clit choose shitty partners. Nice guys finish last, and its tiring when women pretend their sexual preferences are smart.

2. learn mens issues. There's no way to recognize what your partner is doing if you don't know the work load they are under.

3. learn that sex is different for men. It is not a want or requirement, but it is a need. It is psychologically akin to hanger to not get laid. Evolution treats a man failing to eat the same way it treats a man failing to get laid, both are equal to genetic death.

Those are the same basic issues I keep seeing that make it obvious that women aren't really trying to be equals it the ways that take self work and hubris. Only equals when it gets them something.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I think generally you find more traditional types looking in more wholesome places, like picnics rather than bars or family barbecues rather than nightclubs. Same with more wholesome friends in general.

Weddings are also aren't a bad place to meet such people. For example, my wife invited a girlfriend to our wedding and I invited one of my buds and they actually first met each other at our wedding. Then they got married several years later.

Also if you're religious (I'm not), religious institutions always seemed ideal to me to find not only wholesome people but ones that share the same monogamous and family-oriented values.

Certain cultures also tend to focus more on marriage. Like in Japan where I'm from, most Japanese ultimately date with the goal to get married. Some Japanese are into hook-ups but they're mostly found in bars and nightclubs. Anyone who dates outside of such places are generally focused on marriage.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am in Florida but I am already engaged and a tad too old for you.

Seriously, there are good men everywhere, but they aren't going to be found in clubs, are they?

[Berethor]

Here, just stop being anonymous and you may find one.

[Anonymous]

There is not one single place where we congretage where you can go to find us. But I can tell you where NOT to look... clubs, bars, parties, and online dating apps.

School and church are two possibilities.

[Snakeyes7]

In hobby groups. A great way to find a man who has an interest of yours in common.

[aceleon]

most likely not on internet.

[Sonorous]

Guess I'm a bad man 💀

[driven159]

they are around just have to cross paths with them

[HouseMoat]

Men who have no souls

[jmsinaz]

The best website is obviously girlsaskguys. com.

[LazerBean]

Church.

[Anonymous]

When the time comes. Just be paitent.

[Carolinacowboy]

I'm right here