Why can’t I find a good man?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have same issue, I live alone, cook clean. Loyal, family oriented , smart , love seeing new places & going out, do all my errands alone , have a small busines at home. No guy is racing to ask to be my boyfriend or marry me. What do guys want in a women? Just sex? A cheater? Not smart not clean no cooking? I’m confused. I don’t even see any men racing to meet a girls family either. I don't know how women get men to face her family and I just have men cowards running far away avoiding meet parents scared? Even teenagers are not cowards and meet girls parents at age 15? Why grown men age 20-30 are cowards and teens age 15 aren’t & face girls family/parents meet them?

SaartjieJane · Accepted Answer

I’m trying to figure that one out for myself!
I wasted two years on a guy who I thought was a good guy but just had his own issues (as we all do)
Told me he hunks I’m this amazing girl, kind, forgiving, funny, sweet, honest, etc and then he still treated me like shit and totally smashed my heart into smithereens.
So, no matter how kind or loving or soft or calm or honest or anything, you are, date the wrong person and they will NEVER be happy with you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most guys nowadays are looking to hookup. Being a boyfriend is hard and stress. The guys just Want alittle sex to feel good and move on. They just want to get the poison out their system and get back to business. Times have change and a lot have of guys gave up on marriage and family. Sometimes you have to work with what you got. So find a decent guy and pick him.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Good things happen to good people, so maybe you should focus more on being a good person and becoming the best version of yourself possible... instead of wondering why you can not find a good man, maybe you should make yourself more appealing to good men.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Just asking that makes you a red flag.

It can either be:
1. You're not a good woman
2. You don't want a good man
3. You play games
4. You expect a man to approach you all the time.
5. You don't know what a good man is
6. You're not desirable
7. You don't make an effort

Adronicus · Answer

Most women don't want a good man, they're "boring & reliable / dependable". They seek the emotional rollercoaster in my experience. If you really want one they're not hard to find. They're not out chasing woman, they're not at the bars, they're either working or at home taking care of loved ones.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

You probably did. You didn’t want him. And choose someone you wanted. The question isn’t why you can’t find a good man… it’s how many good men have you turned down because you wanted what you wanted and they all turned out to be fucking assholes.. lol

MCheetah · Answer

You only pick Chads, you think you're higher value than you really are, and you have insecurity/baggage issues. Just like most women today who ask this question. (So, nothing personal. It's just common for modern women.)

Nahid1707 · Answer

Many women can relate with you

i know daring is a process, a experience and a journey.
It can be challenging, we do learn from our experiences and advise others.

What do you want a in a guy?

Remember to stick and have some standards

It’s all about personality similarities too

And the connection

Tiptoetamm · Answer

One man will never hit everything on your check list. Honestly you need to put you heart out there to find love, yes we get hurt sometimes but that's all apart of it. Learn from your last relationship and use it for your future relationship.

fred_durst · Answer

the fact that you are too lazy to write some content here so people can give you some helpful insight , so i would say , the reason you can't find a good men it is because you are not willing to make effort at all to make your life better , not just relationships

crossdressingrihno · Answer

The good ones are taken rather quickly. The ones that aren't taken usually don't show their goodness publicly.

slatyb · Answer

Where are you looking? Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. Maybe you have met good men but rejected them because they made you uncomfortable. Maybe you need to get your own life together to be able to attract a man who has his life together.

genericname85 · Answer

Hard to swallow pill: if you can't find a "good" man, you're not as "good" a woman as you think you are. cause people are generally not attracted to people who aren't as good as they are.

Reaper1985 · Answer

often times the good ones from either side get taken by other good ones early on and/or get ruined by bad ones to the point they opt out of long term dating.

Avicenna · Answer

The most common reason a woman can’t find a suitable partner is that she’s too picky. Next most common is that she’s a single mom.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Look at me I've been single since my last girlfriend which was over 17 years ago so I feel bad for you, why can't none of us find true love it's a big question and there is no answer to the question?

Gent207 · Answer

What is your definition of as good man? Excluding the obvious faithfulness, kindness, empathy and manners

HighValue · Answer

What state are you in?  Some states have more good people than other states which can increase or decrease your chances.

Freyke · Answer

You may not know where to look or you need to step up your game and become a good woman. Because a good partner, man or woman will not settle for less than they are.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Where are you looking? Good men are definitely out there!

notwoke · Answer

because 100% of women can't have a top 10% man. the math just doesn;t work. Look in the mirror and say: "my parents lied, I'm not special" and you will find a man

Anonymous · Answer

Most of you are a liability, rather than an advantage.

007kingifrit · Answer

well where are you looking? show us your dating profile, pics being used, etc etc and we can answer specifically

RicFlair312 · Answer

Just have a little patience & you will be successful

msc545 · Answer

With the way women treat men, are you really surprised?

Anonymous · Answer

Because you might be overlooking faults of people and you may not have set boundaries

RuthlessAggression · Answer

Because you likely overlook the ones you "don't like"

scooogy · Answer

Why can't I walk on the moon? Because I'm on earth. Start finding instead of searching.

Talkingtotheone · Answer

women only want 15% of the male population not enough men to go around

IsoUser · Answer

Aside from you being an ongoing whore what is your complaint?

legalboxers · Answer

why do people always post this :( Where are you looking?

Fuentes · Answer

Cause it ain't me but I'm only on the market for a NIGHT.

TallAnon · Answer

Looking in the wrong places, trying the wrong people

altdbob · Answer

I dont know because I dont know anything about you. Do you know?

Berethor · Answer

You friend zoned him. :)

Miristheiss · Answer

Maybe you are not a good woman.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'll be at COSTCO... tomorrow afternoon

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Are you a good woman?

DavidRaul · Answer

Maybe you are looking at the wrong place

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

You probably don't actually want one...

PatriceONeal · Answer

Are you a good woman?

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Maybe you aren't a good woman.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Maybe because you aren't good yourself?

sharrinfoxx · Answer

You need a submissive guy

888theGreat · Answer

quit trying to be a blonde

DiDi1101 · Answer

Same question why i can't find a good woman?

Rudon00 · Answer

Why can't I find a female with Ready-Courtesy.

Anonymous · Answer

Because men nowadays are trash.

Anonymous · Answer

You're really not looking.

Anonymous · Answer

Did you spend your youth chasing “bad boys”?

Someguy1234567 · Answer

Perhaps you have your eyes closed

Sorbay · Answer

You are prob a cunt

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Define "good man"

JustRelax · Answer

you have bad luck?

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Because you’re picky

Jackson619 · Answer

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