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I will be honest with you, If someone hurts me regardless of looks iam not gonna be nice, but most of the time if a girl is truly hot and i find her irresistibly attractive iam more like to ignore some of her bad traits, such as not having a great style, not being very smart, studying something kinda useless at college, having interests that are immature and basically not having everything i want in a girl , i do have standards though and some things (including being btchy is not something i am willing to tolerate ) .

And i assume based on how people act that its the same for almost everyone, i see women with men who have no job or are criminals, bad husband material but girls still go for them, as for guys some dont seem to mind a girl with 20+ guys in her history, really naive/stupid or with an attitude.

So be honest, if you like how someone looks are you more likely to overlook that persons bad qualities?

No offense ladies but in the past couple of years i've been looking for a girl to love who loves me since i've broken up with my girlfriend, at college i get attention from all sorts of girls but they always have a boyfriend or we are worlds apart in terms of wealth and background, but regardless of all that, i simply can't seem to find any quality women...

all the girls my age, younger and a little older want (according to many girls who have told me) a guy with a good job who makes good money and more than them, can take them on nice vacations and has a nice house, who is also good looking and a gentleman.

but on the other hand they dont want do any house work, they dont want to cook, they dont want to clean, they want very few kids, a lot swear and curse often, have an attitude, think they're worth more than their actualy worth and simply put demand much more than they're willing to give.

I realise not all girls like that and i admire women who get an education and improve themselves, and also on the other hand aren't hypocrites who demand to take but not give... i was surprised when 4 girls argued how they want a rich guy with good looks but aren't willing to do anything around the house... your thoughts?

Well, for the past year and a half, I have been using meetup. com to expand my social circle and as a means to also meet quality women. I am part of a lot of groups on meetup, and I have meet some interesting people so far. However, I have noticed a trend at these events:

-A lot of the meetup groups are dominated by men. Don't get me wrong, females still attend, but not as much as the men. And if females to attend, they are not very attractive (in my opinion)... and if attractive women do come to the meetup, they are often with 2-3 other friends and they relax together and talk to the other women.

-I have noticed that a lot of women signup for meetup events that are only for women. Sometimes... some of the meetup groups I am part of have women only events... and when I look at the turnout for those, a lot more women tend to go to those (especially the attractive ones) than the mixed gender meetups.

Adding onto this... back in my college days, when I used to go to the bars with my friends and attempt to "pickup" women, they would always tell me that they are not looking to get to know guys and are only out to hangout with their girlfriends and have a girls' night out.

So... that begs the question... ladies... when you go out, are you going out to meet men or hang out with your girlfriends and have a girls' night out?