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So I've been talking to this guy for a few months now and he told me something personal that is usually a common question when people ask about someone your usually seeing/talking too. I ended up telling someone about that personal thing because they asked about that common question and if i did say something generic about the question i knew they would keep asking so i told them and then i told him i told that person.

He said he felt betrayal in a way. he's a very private person and its his first experience when it comes to a relationship. Which i understand but it felt like he wasn't getting my side of things which was a little frustrating.

Also I've been talking about the future a lot and about meeting each other family etc. When im happy and excited about things i usually think about those things. He said i need to tone it down a bit because it made him uncomfortable and nervous. He wants to take things slow and make it right and said he could see a future with me. Things he was saying kind of made me feel like shit and it didn't seem like he was understanding how it was normal and i apologized.

He said he doesn't want to give up on this and we were both stress. It sometimes feels like if he talks about the future etc then its okayy but if i do sometimes its like too soon to talk about it.