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Search Results: compare myself to others
How to not feel insecure and depressed when I see beautiful girls?
I have a lot of triggers when I see beautiful girls with nice bodies. I came out of an abusive relationship where the guy would flirt in front of me and tell me they were beautiful. He would compare me to them and say I...
Sweetascandy1990
Xper 6 Age: 36 My mom is toxic?
I’m only 16, and my grades are good, never below A. she keeps comparing me to others because i don’t study much, i mean i study whenever i feel like studying i don’t want to be forced, anyways. an hour ago, she told me to...
Anonymous
(25-29) How important are muscles on a guy?
So im at the gym. I only go maybe once a week. But i can't help but feel insecure cause there are so many other guys bigger than me. Muscle/size wise I guess. Do I have a reason to feel insecure? Is it important? I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Willow from Buffy was an early hipster?
I started watching Buffy again around Christmas, its been around 15 years since i last watched it through. One of the things that has caught my eye is how much Willow stands out (and not just because i had a big crush on...
mrbobz
Explorer Age: 43 Nice Guys - And What People Get Wrong About Them!
"Nice guy" Pretty much everyone has seen the term between quotes, or nowadays even without quotes. In the recent couple of years it has positively become a swear word - proclaiming yourself a nice guy has become similar...
Benedek38
Explorer Age: 29 How to deal with bad self esteem?
I got very low self esteem. Just wondering what are some ways to get it up? I tend to compare myself to other women who are more pretty.
BlueEyedMackie
Xper 2 Age: 29 How can I stop being obsessed with my looks?
This has been going on with me since I can remember, and it is an obssesion that drives me crazy and it is not letting me live normally. I'm obsessed with not being pretty. Because yes, I ain't hot. Like many other...
Inneedofusername
Explorer Age: 27 Why do guys say this and then leave?
I'm almost 25.. and extremely shy. 4 years ago was the last relationship I was in and that lasted just under a year. actually it was my only relationship. I guess I had nothing to compare him too. but he treated me...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to stop being insecure when my s. o likes pictures of other girls?
My s. o follows nothing but other women on Instagram. Especially a lot of adult models and he constantly likes all of their pictures. And while I try my hardest not to compare myself I can’t help it. I don’t look anything...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I feel like a bad person?
Me and my ex was trying to make it work but now he's acting like a jerk. Everything was going good... but now he's rubbing other woman in my face. When we were together he did the same thing and he brought up the idea of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do you think white females aren't as confident as black women?
By the way I'm not racist but this is something I noticed. Personally I don't befriend white females so I don't know how they act but from the little I've seen they aren't the most confident. There was also a study done...
Imbetterthanyoubihh
Xper 4 Age: 41 My Friends And Dating VS Me And Dating
i'm just gonna say it. Boys can be jerks. Boys can be crazy. But not all are. My friends and me have 2 completely different approaches to dating. I am in a successful relationship myself, however i don't get any sort of...
GamingDragomachina
Xper 4 Age: 23 I feel lost and alone?
So my best friends is currently fighting depression and everyone is giving her advice and helping her. And i just feel upset because when i felt depressed and suicidal, and i still do at times, no one helps/helped me. I...
Anonymous
(18-24) What I Learned Keeps Me Confident
1. Constantly expanding my knowledge What I once thought to be my biggest distraction, I've started to grow a deeper appreciation for YouTube for its vast resources of handy, educational videos. Reading books have also...
How to deal with the feeling of not being good enough after unrequited love?
Confessed to a friend, says she doesn’t like me in that way and simultaneously found out who she dated a year ago, was some tall white guy, now I’m sitting here comparing myself and feeling worthless. Have the urge to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is “Ethnic Cleansing” really taking place in Western Europe?
Ethnic Cleanisng is a term I literally just learnt. It’s basically when one group of people (or Ethnicity) comes to a place where another Ethnicity lives and pretty much takes them over/replaces them. At least, that’s my...
Raven_76
Xper 5 Age: 25 Guys, do you get insecure and compare yourself to other guys?
I know some girls do. And myself included at times. So, I'm wondering. Do guys as well?
Anonymous
(36-45) Wondering how I look?
Hi, I’ve been experiencing low self esteem lately and I don't know if this will make it worse or better lol. I know this is silly but I may be experiencing it because of this one guy and because I’m constantly comparing...
Anonymous
(25-29) When I Finally Realized I Am Attractive
I genuinely had the self esteem of an onion and thought I looked like an eggplant lol. Not exactly attractive because what is 'attractive' that could be subjective , no? But just not as ugly as I thought I was. I grew up...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m living with someone my boyfriend asked out?
Before my boyfriend met me, he was friends with this girl. I didn’t know until she moved in, that my boyfriend knew her, or that he asked her out. She is a friend of a friend. Anyways, the girl moved in. My boyfriend was...
Anonymous
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