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I think it has been long enough that whatever posts ended up online should have faded. So I’m bringing “dig it or donate” back.

I am also keeping “wear me wear me not “ as they have different functions.

“DIG IT OR DONATE “ will resume its original purpose... getting rid of stuff. WEAR ME WEAR ME NOT, will be fit clothing combination advice.

So.. I put this skirt on to clean my APRT. Not bc I think skirts are necessarily good to clean in, but I like to dance while I clean and I like watching skirts twirl when I move.

Anyhow, I thought about how I never ever wear it. And I can’t tell if it is ugly or looks bad on me or maybe it is just a bit old..

I DO like the way it flares out and Twirls though and I do happen to think navy blue and pale yellow look quite nice together. I noticed that by accident. That isn’t the point. I don’t think I need any extra clothes to clean in, I have extra extras of everything as it is.. Im pretty sure everyone will say donate. But I’m curious. 🤷‍♀️😊

Happy New Year 🥳🥳🥳

I know technically purple matches better than burgundy, (or maroon I’m not sure which it is🤷‍♀️) But with the pink and lavender it gets really “ childish”. Bc of all the color everywhere. I’m considering dyeing one of the coats black ( if that is possible with that material).

For now I’m trying to figure out which looks less bad. These are my warmest light weight coats. I have dark neural colored coats, but they are either too heavy or not so warm. I like to not be weighed down plus my messenger bag doesn’t fit over the bigger coats. I always end up getting tangled in it when I try to take it off.

I know I have posted this outfit. I happen to have it on when I was looking at the coats , and the fact it is pretty much standard wear for me for winter- as far as color combo and style- it made sense to use it as a template.

Sorry the burgundy coat pics are a bit hazy. Sun was really bright at the time.

Thanks for the feed back 😊

So I know I already posted this. It’s NOT a wear me, don’t wear me question. Definitely NOT a how do I look question. It’s a

DOES THIS FIT PROPERLY OR IS IT SLOPPY question 👍🏻😊

last night when I was getting ready for bed, MrMr was playing with my skirt just normal grabbing onto it and not letting go. It’s a game he plays so he loves elastic stuff. Bungie cords scrunches yoga strips etc.

Anyhow , in the process of tye game, I realized how much fabric the the skirt gives.. and when I snapped it beck it looked really bulky to me. I’m not sure how I missed that yesterday.. maybe I had scrunched the fabric to the back without thinking. You can adjust where the fabric gathers.. So maybe this is how it is meant to be?

most of my skirts are with a zipper or button or just fixed waist where you have no control over where the fabric gathers.

I can’t tell if this is how it is meant to be, or should I get a smaller size.

I can’t say I have a standard star in skiers bc I buy turn from other decades or order which means it can be from China. I’m anywhere from Xsmall to medium depending on the source. And if it shrunk.

This is a small bit maybe from the states🤷‍♀️

Anyhow, anyone who knows about how roasting water on flare skirts is meant to work, please chime in.

I think it looks a bit sloppy and I have no pregnancy plans.. So, not sure.

pictures look a bit funny bc I increased the contrast A LOT, so you could get a clearer idea of the waist. Not a fashion show by any means lol

Thank you 😊

Both of us are now adults (she's now 20 and I'm 24) and we're spending more time together. I've always wondered if her diagnosis at the time was accurate. She was diagnosed with conduct disorder with psychopathic tendencies and institutionalized at age 10. Then she was released 6 years later.

She was detained for serious bodily harm and torture on 2 younger boys, arson and several animal cruelty charges. However, given these things about her was she really psychopathic?
- She did cared about her friend in crime at the time. That's the only friend she had and sometimes referred to her as a sister. She's an only child.
- She explained how she once wanted to be good when spending the weekends with her father but anger took over and hence the destructive urges started again.
- She only bullied and beat smaller, younger boys, not girls. I'm guessing this was her displacement anger towards drunk pedophiles that molested and more than likely raped her too.
- She was crying in the interrogation room, threwing herself towards her father (not the mother) for comfort and requesting to go back home.
- She currently expressed full remorse for her actions back then and they do seemed genuine.

From the looks of it, that doesn't sound like someone psychopathic. It looks like a former angry, abused, troubled girl. She still had the ability to bond and empathasize. Even if it was very limited, that's different than if someone had ZERO abilily to bond/emphasize. That means she wasn't psychopathic.
I'm not a psychologist but if getting helped rehabilitated her then she doesn't fit the category of a psychopath. A true born psychopath wouldn't bond with anyone and no amount of therapy would fix them. They wouldn't be expressing remorse either. What do you think?