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I have never particularly loved the way I look but I recently lost 28 pounds (yes if you add that to my current weight I was kind of 'large' before) That being said, I was never actually considered 'fat'. This year I've encountered the issue of having LOTS of friends who weigh less than 100 lbs. Despite my weight loss and the fact that I go to the gym almost daily and run a lot, I've had a friend who says she weighs only 105 pounds call me fat every day. She says she's kidding but it kind of stings. My BMI says I'm in the healthy range and I have only a little fat on my stomach and really muscular legs. I joined sports for next year and I'm trying really hard to lose weight. For a while I actually took it too far and got kind of sick from not eating anything. I'm asking this question to everybody but I'm really interested in guys answers because I want to know their opinion. I think girls usually think they should weigh less than 125 pounds and a lot of girls are probably going to tell me I'm fat and need to lose 10-20 lbs. but I can't really guess what guys will say. I'm scared for it, but I'm just really curious too. I guess my stomach isn't muscular but it's not flabby. Also, my waist is higher and my ribs are larger than most of my friends. It makes me look a bit bigger but if you feel my side it's not really fat but instead ribs. Also, if it helps at all I'm a size 4 and a small for most clothes. Thank you for all the opinions.