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Spent time at lake with longtime male friend recently.. previous history of intimacy but not for a few years. After we got settled.. he offered to give me a massage.. (I was in a bikini.. trip was his idea).. he’d rubbed my neck.. shoulders.. entire back and legs. I’d recently put on some weight and I joked that it went to my butt and he said I could tell and smacked it a couple times. Before he’d only ever been like that in private.. so since this was public.. was curious if this sign of pda.. was intended to be flirty.. territorial.. or something else? We went in the water for a little bit and he did splash me a couple times. Just curious as being public along this line is new for him. Being that it’s been awhile since we’ve been intimate.. along with a history of being weird when other guys were nice to me during the time we were intimate and since then.. wanting to make sure I didn’t misread this visit.. as it came across at the very least as flirty.. opinions appreciated..

ONLY READ IF YOUR NOT MEAN OR YOU THINK YOUNG RELATIONSHIP ARE STUPID AND EITHER READ ALL OR NONE!! I have this friend and we have known each other for a while he is my best friend so we are comfortable with each other he is kinda like my brother. so when have this group of 5 let's just name them me gbf "girl best friend" soulB "soul brother" crush "which is brothers with soulb" and nephew. so we are the type of group where we are a fam we enjoy watching movies going for walks we enjoy each other company. well my gbf likes my crush and I do to but the thing is he likes gbf and my soulb also like gbf but usually me and my crush don't hang because my gbf is really clingy and almost Impossible to hang out with when she is there. "we all do hang on each other alot" well recently we went to a water park and my soulb needed to works thing out with gbf so me crush and nephew when off into the lazy river and I started hanging on him a lot well we was joking around but we was just floating through the lazy river together and it was nice. so after that we have been recently more comfortable together we will hold hands sometime but that normal for our group and he has many times said he likes my gbf but I still don't know if he likes me or just being more comfortable and like a brother. "because me and my soulb hold hands well only when I'm sad" also one more thing they are actually having a comp to win my gbf "she kissed me crush twice this week they only ever kiss once when they dated oh and they dated a long time ago but it did not last long" and we barely see them because of strict mom. also they don't have a phone only time we can talk to them on phone is when nephew is with them. so what do you think and I know it's hard to comprehend and it sounds stupid but what's your guys opinions the pole is for if he likes me.

Longtime guy friend.. brief intimacy a few years ago. He’d act weird when other guys were nice to me before he moved and a few times since then. He’s normally casual about relationships. Have visited a few times since he moved. Most recent visit he invited me to the lake and said bring my bikini. He sprayed lotion on my back.. rubbed my shoulders, neck/back and legs. He smacked my butt a couple times when I’d mentioned that the weight had gained has recently went there.. he said I know and smacked it. Weird part is that he said he liked friends with benefits but acting weird when other guys were nice to me didn’t make sense.. especially since he’s moved. The lake visit was nice but did leave me confused. It’s the first time he’d done anything public like that. Right after he moved he said we’re friends, I don’t know when I’ll see you.. and “if the benefits happen”.. I’m just hoping I didn’t misread the lake visit as flirt. When we were in the water he did splash me a couple times. Opinions appreciated 🙂

Long time friend.. period of intimacy a few years ago.. he has a history of being casual about relationships but would act weird when others were nice to me.. before and after he moved. Spent time recently at the lake and he told me to bring my bikini.. he rubbed my neck.. back.. legs and smacked my butt a couple times. When we were in the water he even splashed me a couple times.. this was new because public displays like that were not the usual. Just curious.. from guy standpoint: can intimacy take place for 6 months without some kind of eelinds? Not necessarily love but in general? Opinions helpful.. from girls too of course.. just curious from guys especially..

Spent time at the lake a few weeks ago with a long time male friend. We have a history of intimacy but it’s been almost 3 years. When we were in the water.. I noticed he playfully splashed me a couple times.. I thought it was cute.. was curious if that kinda stuff is intended as flirt in a way?
Hed invited me to the lake.. told me to bring my bikini and did rub lotion on my back and legs.. and smacked my butt a couple times. That part was out of the norm for him (in public).. but was curious about the water. Even thought we’ve not been “together” in 3 years.. there’ve been times since then that he’s gotten weird when another guy happens to be nice to me.. especially if it’s someone he knows. That happened both before he moved and a few times since. Opinions definitely appreciated

I bought a shirt.. just its not any shirt. Its the shirt from the show Stranger Things.. Specifically its Hopper's woven green and pink shirt from the third season. I know its more of a shirt for a guy but I bought it because I think it looks really nice. I am a girl and I have an idea of how I want to wear it creatively. I do want to wear it but should I? I just feel like so many guys are wearing it and i dont know im being weird overthinking. Id like to hear your opinions.

Longtime male friend
intimate for 6 months (back in 2016)..
issues with guys being nice before and afrer he moved away.
Afrer lunch during recent visit.. thanked him for being good company and response was 😘😘😘 without words. Just curious if the flirt after all this time is a normal response.. or possible remaining interest from before. Especially with issues still being there with other guys being nice to me. Opinions def welcome and appreciated 🙂