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I have suspected this for a while that we are just plain the dumber sex. I don't want to fabricate an elaborate explanation for it. All I've truly got is the thought that we are just dumb.

As a whole many of us keep falling for guys who string us along emotionally and dangle that carrot in front of our face. Even when we technically know he's fooling us, we are prone to taking that bait and munching down. I feel like we are often willing to take whatever is offered to us.

For instance I am in an emotional harem (i do not fornicate but maybe the other girls are or are willing to fuck him) with a guy and these other women at work. I was the first girl he took so i got to see him finesse the other two. I dont think he even tried hard especially with the last one. Some girls are easier though.

But anyway, this is a man who told me he used to have girls wanting him at the same time and insinuated that having mutiple wives is ok and normal. Clearly he would be into that.

Oh did i mention he has a girlfriend? She probably doesn't know about his harem but he told me that she knows he flirts and its ok because they trust each other. But this is the same man who wants to fuck me for almost a year now.

My boyfriend 18 m, has adhd, so him not responding for hours because of his hyperactivity or hyper focus is super normal, and I learned that earlier. But I feel like something is off, our texting schedule is a bit weirder than it used to be, so instead of not responding to my recent message, he’ll call me hours later throughout the day and we’ll talk for a few hours, then he’ll lie and say “my moms calling me” to get off the phone. Secondly, he hasn’t called me many pet names recently, he usually calls me babe or goldfish and he hasn’t, and I know it’s stupid to be worried but I read so many articles of guys falling out of love with their girlfriend because they lost interest. He just seems less romantic than he usually is... it’s only been a few days since he’s started this, and it’s making me so nervous.