I had a terrible dating experience recently. I didn't tell anyone I was seeing this guy and now that everything has gone wrong I can't tell anyone about it. My suggestion is to share the stories we have. I don't want to live through this alone. I'm going crazy. I HOPE you will join me.
Anyway, let me start.
I'm on Tinder. And I met a guy through it. I didn't want anything serious since my previous experience in dating wasn't successful. I told myself if there's no love at least let there be sex.
We met and we talked about it. We both agreed that we shouldn't limit ourselves. That if we like each other enough then, why not date?
He was magnificent. And he told me that he liked me too. After the first date, he said he wanted to see me as soon as possible, but then that "asap" turned out to be almost a week later (which was a bit strange to me, but I decided not to be pushy or needy). I waited but he caught a cold, so we ended up seeing each other a couple of days later than we've decided initially.
Another great date. We've spent hours together. Had dinner, then went to a couple of bars where we just sat and talked.
Right after we said goodbye I texted him telling him I had a great time, to which he replied saying now he's even more sure he likes me.
Next time we've decided to meet at my place.
Throughout the week we kept on talking until one day he just stopped texting me.
Again, not wanting to be needy I just let it be.
Texted him two days later, he replied once and the conversation stuck. At the end of the next day I texted again. No reply. My patience had limits but not my imagination. I'd think all sorts of things, so instead of making those crazy conclusions I just asked him what was wrong .....and drum roll.......he said he fell in love with another girl.
Like how? When? I thought he was falling in love with me....The saddest part of the story is that, before things wouldn't go well with the guys and I think that's ok for us two not to work out. But how am I supposed to believe anyone else now when things went so well but right in the beginning he changed me for someone else?
Your turn guys, tell me I'm not the only one suffering here.