Should I relocate where he live?

[Rosebuzz]

So yesterday I was talking to the guy I have met through bumble and we started off great once we went on the second date, but the problem is he have a major trust issues since his ex girlfriend of 6 years cheated on him with another man and I know he have admitted to me that he can be a player and wanted us to stay friend since he want to explore and date other people which is I am fine with it. He already knew how much I like him and stuffs and want me to not develop anymore feeling for him since it’s not fair to him that he want to do all the work for me, not me come chasing after him that’s when he kinda push me away and I know we’re both very independent people. Honestly, I am still interested in this guy and I will see myself with him in the future because he is a good guy and I need to learn how to play hard get. I would like for us to continue with our friendship and he did asked me if I will ever relocate to be closer where he live since he would to have a sexual relationship with me, but I’m not too sure if he is using me for his sexual pleasure or pursue interest in me, you know I cannot read men’s mind since I don’t know what’s going on in their mind and I do know he has told me he was like to focus on his career for 3 years before marriage and kids that he want to give me and wanted me to support his career. Yes I admittedly did have sex with him on our first date then have a scare moment about us having unprotected sex so good thing he did brought me plan b for our second date for dinner. It’s hard because he seem distant from me and I know he scare to get HURT then I know I’ll have to figure it out how to make him not to be scare of falling in love with me because I do genuinely believe everybody deserves a second chance at LOVE. What do you think I should do about him? Help me make this happen.

[Anonymous]

Honey, you are completely setting yourself up for heartbreak. Already you are willing to settle for friendship or whatever he is willing to give, because you “hope” it will become more and that he will learn to trust you. Do you realize how up in the air that sounds? The fact you are even considering moving and uprooting your whole life for someone who doesn’t want a relationship and basically wants convenient sex is just sad. Women find that to be a hard choice for someone they are actually together with, let alone a friends with benefits. You can do so much better than being a side piece for a guy, no matter how nice he is or how great the chemistry is.

[Shah11]

Wow. Words ❤️

[Opinion Owner]

@shah11 thank youuu☺️🤍

[Luckycharms12]

Make him move if he has the issue not you