I know feminist are gonna argue and compare it with men dating younger, but it’s really not the same thing. Older men who date younger women are successful, rich, high status etc. And have the young girl to show for it. It’s not the same vice versa.
When a older woman is with a younger man she’s usually a damaged good who’s trying to be young. The older woman is no value to a young man with a bright future. He’ll just have the old lady as a side piece until he finds someone age appropriate.
Young men who do marry these old ladies just want a sugar mama to spend money on them. These guys are usually bums. And even then, they eventually end up cheating n falling in love with a younger woman when the sugar mama gets too too old.
I’m not saying this is always the case with older women n young men. But at least 90% of the time. If you’re and old broad who enjoys dating young men props to you. Just understand what you’re getting yourself into and stop acting arrogant!
Why do older women get arrogant when dating young men?
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I just got out of a relationship with a younger man. By the way he lied about his age when I meet him so I knew he was a few years younger but not as much as it turned out to be. I loved the guy. But nothing I did was okay if I offered to pay he more than gladly accept and then tell me I made him feel like shit. Sorry I felt bad I knew you went out the night before and drank and bet all ur money on sports. No point in charging dinner when I’m more than able to pay. N ate too!! Any way the age wasn’t a problem for me until he started to act very immature. After the initial infatuation stage he would go out all the time. I knew he was hooking up with other girls. I tried to end it and he’s cry like a baby. Not like a man in his 20s. I didn’t get it but I always ended up falling for it. Until I guess he meet someone else whose also older and then their was no talking to him about it
Arrogance is confidence you don't like/agree with. For others, its just confidence.
Speaking from the place of a mid tier attractive female, getting a man to date you IS easy. Getting him to fall for you is the great equilibriator of all classes.
Anyways, Plenty of men pander for ' a real shot' and when you have looks, security, class, and in this case, also wealth, one has the time to be patient and screen out people who are less open to adjusting how relationships 'work.'
In most relationships, women back lead major milestones, ones social calendar, as well as the majority of what one puts in the stomach. The difference, is if she's in the habit of paying for things, the other partner gets in the habit of coasting through life as a passenger. If she has money, she gets credit for doing these things.
I don't see how this is arrogant, it's just men accepting that their roles must be different if they are liberated from provider, lifter, laborer.
Because for women the older you get the less your value goes down due to the reason of reproductive issues, that's why it's considered rude to ask an older woman their age because it takes away value. Therefore if a woman is able to get a younger guy and he's really good-looking to the point where he can have any girl then it's like showing that she still has it and women love attention so that's the best attention they can get.
You know I've always been worried that most of my sexual partners and relationships were with women who were always about 2 years younger than me. And a few who were the same age. I always thought something was wrong with me that I hadn't gotten an older woman yet.
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Dude, if you’re not ready to settle down and have kids. Date an older woman. They’re lots of fun. You don’t have to worry about them getting pregnant or providing for them. When you’re ready to be serious get with someone younger!
Sometimes, older women have a very strong libido and they think they need a younger man to satisfy their needs. When I was 23, I dated a woman who was 46. She wanted to do it 6-7 times every night.
Women are always arrogant. They have their peak value at 22 and it fades every day after that. Women don’t realize this but because some guys are naturally desperate with the state of female arrogance forcing more men to be desperate, women don’t start to realize their decreasing value until their in their 30s with kids from multiple men and can’t get guys to take them seriously or even put on the act anymore.
Women never learn and if they get lucky anything they learned about self improvement just goes away.
I have known couples where the lady is older than the guy and I have yet to witness a relationship where the guy is sponging off the lady. The couples I have met are generally happy, with both parties contributing equally.
I'm not dismissing the fact that there are some guys who are just looking for sugar mummies. If by throwing money at the guy and expecting the guy to love you for it, then the woman doing so is just stupid.
I too am a victim of sugar daddies. I was walking down an alley one day and saw Daniel Devito. That sweet piece of ass was horking down a meatball sub when I first met him. Threw it up and ate it back up again, what a goddamn sexy ass piece of man.
damaged good? why would an older woman not be able to express confidence when she’s old? is it not natural for us to age? you may be confused, or maybe just misogynistic
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I said “90%” of the time. So clearly not all of them!
I’ve dated older women when I was young. It was fun. No bad breakups. If this floats a feminists boat, go for it women. They want that man that will give it to them 2-3 times a day and hopefully is packing a kielbasa.
No, it's not the same thing. And they never really properly respect them, they always consider them less than themselves. That's why they're doing them in the first place.
I just don't like huge age gaps in general, but that's not for me to judge.
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Literally everything you said applies on old men dating young girls too LOL They only date old men for the money and not because they like them or think they are hot
Absolutely! Anyone who dates someone young enough to be their child is being used, male or female. But like I said an old man has a higher value to a young girl than vice versa.
Young women do submit and have children with these old rich men. Obviously it can’t work the same with the old women. Donald Trump, Boris Johnson, and Bill Gates hold a way higher value to young females than Oprah Winfrey will ever hold to a young man. That’s just facts!!
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