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2 mo

Why should I make efforts when I have been nice to these people? I can't even believe that this is all coming from older women and older people?

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I had a three-year time when I was dating my ex, and I was going through depression, and I wasn't working. I met these people since I was a teenager. They are the family of friends of my sister and her husband's family. I knew her husband's family from the time I was young, but I started noticing that his two aunts were pretty arrogant and so was their family. The mutual friends of my sister and her husband also had an older woman who was the mother of one of their friends. It's been a long time since those horrible three years, but I got back up and have been doing great since then. Those aunts and my sister's mother-in-law enjoy gossiping and I know 100 percent they had a lot to say when I went through a very bad time. I'm just aware about it now seeing the whole situation at this time. I also left my selfish and mean ex who people liked, and these women loved. I bring him up because when I dumped him that mother of the friend told him it was good, we broke up. If I knew better, I would think she wanted to date him. After all this happened, I had an incident with the mother of the family friend. Unfortunately, she ended up moving into our neighborhood and I had an accident with another car. This lady instead of being a good neighbor she ran into her house and called everyone and told them the gossip. I have never done anything to this woman and if it had been her, I would've run to see if she was okay. I did bring up the situation afterwards at a party and they thought I wasn't going to say anything. She kept on "acting nice" Infront of me afterwards. I'm usually pretty quiet but I've changed and I'm not that quiet person anymore. I started to notice about two years ago that I have always tried to be kind because I was brought up this way. I don't think it's a bad thing, but I do see now that even though I've gone through something bad these same people will rather criticize it.

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2 mo
These older women seem to be the ones that were pretty but mean when they were younger. I guess I never saw this being that my mom and other older women I know in my family aren't like this. This made me think back at how I've always been so kind and nice to these older women and their families. Last year I decided I wasn't going to talk to them anymore and that's exactly what I did. I did have some people who greeted, and I did greet them as well.
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2 mo
It's not my fault that they are older and are other bothered because I'm younger. I understand the arrogance and the envy now. Why should I make efforts when they have been wishing bad on me and criticizing me? I have never done anything and only been nice to these people all these years and yet I get treated bad.
Why should I make efforts when I have been nice to these people? I can't even believe that this is all coming from older women and older people?
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