Search Results: is this an eating disorder

So I've recently gained about 25lbs. Going from 130 to 155 at 5'4. Husband keeps making the same rude comments about how if I keep eating I'm going to swell up, if I have a snackhe'll say what are you doing and he'll keep staring me down till I tell him I'm having a snack which I usually a yogurt or cheese or yea a cookie. Tonight after supper I had a few gram crackers he just looks at me asking me what do I think I'm doing. Yes I'm EATING I say. He'll pinch my fat and tell me that he doesn't know how much more weight I'm going to gain. Shit like that. Listen all of my life I've been too thin, to the point where mean people have accused me of having an eating disorder to being on drugs. Plus my health is terrible so I'm finally on meds that allow me to have an appetite so I can finally eat when I'm hungry. We've been together forever but I'm getting sick of his mean comments. He says he's just joking then got mad at me when I told him that hurts my feelings tonight. My question: is he actually joking or is he for real a jerk? What do y'all think?

I'm not all bones, I have decent amount of fat in my body. Im short and weigh 110 ibs and want to be 99.) I just have a problem with food. I can't.. I can't eat.

My question is would a guy be willing to date such a girl? Don't get me wrong she eats of course but very little, enough to survive. Also, would you be willing to include a role play about this in the bedroom. Like you tell me to go eat and if I dont, you spank me etc?

(yeah I know, shrinks, therapists, "go see them, seek professional help" and all that jazz. They are a bunch of fakes waiting for the session to be over and go home to shower in dollars. Please don't give the said advices and just answer my two questions).