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Is it ever acceptable to accept VICTIMHOOD as a man?
When one writes such a word as “victimhood,” what do you think about? If you are red-pilled enough, you must already be aware that it means something overused and stemming from hostile intentions. We are all too familiar...
Should I apologise this girl?
Okay first, this seems to be stupid. I know, but please bare with me. This girl, I have never met nor talked. I heard (via a friend; long story) that she had an interest of me after seeing my fb profile. I sent her a...
Any ideas on what his intentions are?
Today, I went over to this guy's place. We dance together in a college ballroom dance class together. I was starting to develop feelings for him and at first I think it wasn't real feelings, just a dance thing (because...
How do I develop friendship with a guy I am in love with, without him confusing my feelings for him with expectation of him or intentions towards him?
I have a complicated history with this guy and I may eventually be ready to date but atm I really want to strengthen a real friendship. To get to know this person as a 'person' not a romantic interest. I can handle...
What is his intention?
This guy is a married man with children, but he acts like he's attracted to me. He stares me down with no shame! He doesn't leave we alone, and when I snapped at him for not leaving a topic as it was he got real pissy the...
Why would a guy that's obsessing over a girl try to make her jealous and get her attention but not make a move on her?
This guy that I have a mutual crush with is constantly flirting with me and trying any way he can to be part of my life (other than actually asking me out), said when I asked him if he really wanted something with me,...
How do you know if a guy just wants to fuck you?
I'll keep this simple. I just need some foolproof signs that will let me know if this guy just wants to have to sex or if he's actually interested in me & wants something more than just sex. I know certain things that...
Childhood memory, was my teacher a creepy pedo?
Yesterday i remembered something from my childhood and i was wondering what peoples opinions on the situation are! When i was very young in primary school (about 9-10 years old), my teacher asked me to stay behind...
What were her real intentions and what should my next move be?
there's this girl who is 2 years younger than me (I'm 22, she's 20) and I've known her for 3 years. We live in the same town and she is friendly with my sister (same age as her). We worked as lifeguards in the summer for...
How does the online dating scene progress?
After 3.5 years of being in a relationship, I'm now single again and back to the dating scene. I've been down this road before my last relationship and meet my ex through online dating, but I want to know how to...
What I Learned From 24 Hours on Tinder as a 17-Year-Old
On a whim, I decided to download Tinder in the bright and early hours of Wednesday morning. (No kidding, it was 2 am… usually when I get all of my brilliant ideas lmfao). Here's what happened: The age on my Facebook...
Help with a guy I think I lost?
I think I ruined my chances on something real, and I need some advice. Super Abridged: I bumped into a guy I already somewhat knew (family ties) and we immediately hit it off. He bartends at a rooftop venue I...
Girl gave me the cheek. What now?
I met this new girl at my school about 2 weeks ago. We exchanged some intense eye contact everytime we met and I got her number at some point. Days pass by and we decide to go for a walk in the city, which was not...
He's away on a study trip for 9 months: does distance make the heart grow fonder?
Hey guys and girls! So, me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now (we've been dating exclusively for longer than a year, but we *officially* decided to be a thing only when we were sure we really loved each...
5 Superpowers I Wish I Had
1. Mind reading You can know what a person's true intentions are. You can see their real selves. 2. Invisibility Maybe this can stop people from looking at me. 3. Bend All Four Elements If I could bend air, water, earth...
Which method do you think is best to become healthier?
Common knowledge tells us that when we eat more calories than we need, we gain weight; and if we eat less calories than we need, we lose weight. But I wonder what happens if less emphasis is put on the weight or number on...
12 Dumb Things From The 90s
Every decade has it's share of the good and the bad. We all get nostalgia fever thinking about our childhoods or some decade that happened to be awesome for us, but lest the rose colored glasses cloud our judgement, every...
A Few Things Girls Do That Guys Hate
Before I get started here I want to apologize for being gone for like 3 months. I had some personal things to deal with and it was either writing to hide or stop writing to handle it. My choice was pretty obvious. I'll...
Breaking up with someone that I've only seen twice after talking to for months?
Six months ago my life was kind of a mess. I was living 1,500 miles away from home where I had moved for a guy that broke my heart and everyone I knew, I had met through him. I was depressed, the not getting out of bed,...
Why would he hurt me like this?
He knew I wasn't over him. A year and a half after we broke up, we caught up and each time we were together he told me he loved me. Then apologized through a facebook message for what he put me through these past few...
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Victimhood in general means having part of one’s identity, through one’s real or purported history, tied to past or present undeserved sufferings. We should distinguish between feltvictimhood, which pretty much everyone can harbor, and acknowledged or institutionalizedvictimhood which carries a variety of benefits, such as public commemorations, homage paid by other groups or people, funding, a place in the media and most institutions, moral authority and public empathy.
acknowledged enjoys the greatest share of the market and consequent advantages—exactly as the bigger shareholders of a company will enjoy the biggest dividends.
An intermediary form of victimhood would be one that exists inside a specific group, but has a hard time to get recognition outside. Such a form of victimhood can be kind of frustrating, as the unrecognized will perceive it as a lack of empathy whereas the other will likely mock it, but it also carries on various advantages, be it only the motivation that can flow from angerand quitting a dangerous state of naiveté to a fitter state of, at least, vigilance. 