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Was I deceived and used for sex by this guy or is he being honest?

I feel really upset by all of this because I feel really used and deceived, like I was naive falling in love. I can’t get out of my head and let it go because I’m taking it all so personal. But basically met this guy...

Anonymous

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What does it mean when a guys says he doesn’t want a relationship but also doesn’t want a friends with benefits?

The guy I’m talking to is confusing I asked him what is he looking for. He said to be honest he wants to have sex. So I ask him do you want a friends with benefits he says no just sex. I say well that’s a friends with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I chill or try and talk about it?

We live together, both work full-time jobs. Sometimes he likes to go hangout with his friends, drink, smoke and I don’t mind really. I understand he has friends and wants time with them. However, what got me this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I feel cheated on?

When my fiance and I first started talking about 9 months ago I found out that she had slept with a guy during our talking stage. For some reason it really bothered me. We had both admitted that there was a strong...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I meet up with this guy again?

A couple of years ago this guy and I went out we went out to the movies, the arcade, and then we had sex. A few months after that, he said he had a great time with me. But that he thought we shouldn't go out anymore. And...

Anonymous

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Should I meet up with him again?

Anonymous

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Ex added me back on Snapchat after 6 months?

I was seeing a man in his mid 30s for a few months last year... He led me on to believe that we were in a serious relationship. I found out that he was seeing and having sex with MANY other people even though he asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do?

We met online 3 years ago the texting and calls were always terrible but I did gets to speak to him at a fair rate now we met he automatically wanted to have sex in the back of his car at a public park he says I turn him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I describing a narcissist?

In our first ever argument we were out for dinner and then he just decided to stop talking for the entire half an hour we were there because I made a joke the length of the sex. Then he just dropped me off and didn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I or Should I not?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7months. Both of us want a serious rela when we got into this since we’re studying abroad at the same place and I decided maybe he’s the one ‘cuz I don’t see anyone here as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Besides no contact, is there anything else I can do with this person that I enjoyed spending time with?

35m, 26f. So I went on two dates with a guy. He had messaged me on Instagram a few months ago and we started talking in January. He came on a bit too heavy and I didn't like it so he blocked me on Instagram, found it a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He wants a break for mental health reasons, how long should I give him?

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(30-35)

Seen this guy for a while, we speak for hours every day on the phone, we have a connection like I’ve never had before, like a best friend but more. Haven’t had sex yet because we

Seen this guy for a while, we speak for hours every day on the phone, we have a connection like I’ve never had before, like a best friend but more.

Haven’t had sex yet because we wanted to wait, cause he was sexually coerced & abused by this girl who then made a false allegation against him when he eventually rejected & left her, he had sworn off sex for life until he met me. He’s currently waiting for results of the investigation which has put him in a depression and struggle with trust. But he told me I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him, that I repaired him and brought him hope and trust back in people, that he’s grateful and so lucky to know me.

He was supposed to see me next week and was super excited, but today all of the sudden he cancelled because his mental health has hit rock bottom the past week & work is piling up, he said he knows if he sees me he’ll catch major feelings (which I think he already kind of has), and isn’t ready for a relationship and needs to see a therapist. He doesn’t want me to be his emotional crutch (he’s been really open about his feelings) and wants to man up and take his problems on himself and said it wasn’t fair on me to take on all his downs.

I asked if he needed a break and he said yes and that he’s going to take a break from social media to recharge and focus on himself and work. He said he’s really upset and wished circumstances were different and that he’s really gonna miss me. I told him I’d give him space and wait for him when he’s ready. I’m just worried he won’t contact me again because he doesn’t want to bother me. I don't know what to do cause I’ve caught feelings he’s such an amazing guy and I don’t want to lose what we have & can’t see myself with anyone else. He was just such a breath of fresh air from a series of failed dates and relationships, & felt like I found something truly real for once.

Do you think he’ll get back to me? Is it worth waiting for? How long should I wait before moving on?

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HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"

One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....

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How to tell him I don't have sex?

Hi! 👋 LONG VERSION: (Short version below) I'm 25. He's 31. We've been talking on instagram for 8 months now and had a couple of virtual dates. We don't live in the same country. We both like each other a lot....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he want to keep me a secret for no reason. Could it be because I disrespected him?

he’s kind of a thug, like trust me... ex criminal type ex drug user (but he tries to be better) and I’m in school, have a good job he does not.. etc so I did play games because I kind of thought I’m a prize I shouldn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy vanished on me for a month and now won’t leave me alone. Should I give him another chance or will he just do it again?

A couple months ago I gave this guy my number at a store who I had seen a couple times. He asked me out on a date right away, we went out and had a nice night. Continued messaging. A few nights later he asked me over to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I look for a boyfriend or should I let him find me?

Hi guys, I'm 30 and have been single for the past 5 years. Before I was single, I was in 2 different 1 year long relationships, the guys promised to marry me but ended up cheating on me, lying to me, abusing me and saying...

Anonymous

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Why do we feel jealousy when oir sisters get into relationship?

I started to research for the psychological reasons for being protective over sisters or moms when they get into a relationship with others.. It has been so hard for me to get answer for that question ! After...

george201

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