Why does he want to keep me a secret for no reason. Could it be because I disrespected him?

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he’s kind of a thug, like trust me... ex criminal type ex drug user (but he tries to be better) and I’m in school, have a good job he does not.. etc so I did play games because I kind of thought I’m a prize I shouldn’t come to easy to someone like him... but I now see I was WRONG and if I thought like that I should’ve did us both a favour and not pursued him.
but he was chasing me hard at one point. I made him chaaaaase a bunch. he was trying so hard to be serious and to get with me. but I was sweet back for a while then I played hard to get then he pulled away. So i started blocking, unblocking him and playing games then talking to other men and he found this out.
I cut off all those other guys but he doesn’t believe me
we argue now and again too and it gets ugly, even his friends said they hate the way I speak to him (I basically call him a scum/druggie and whatnot)
he lets his other thuggy friends hit on me...
He still opens up to me a lot.. asks me questions, has sex with me. But he tries to hard to keep me separate from his family and he won’t claim me to any of his friends... he gets MAD at me, for them talking or flirting with me.. but tells them he doesn’t care & isn’t interested in me like that.
but he texts me every single day all day... he will show me off, he shows me off all the time but he won’t ever admit feelings for me.
he’s single by the way there’s no other woman except old side hoes. I know this for sure. so many people have confirmed.
He didn’t keep me a secret at first... he used to brag about me to his sister. but now she doesn’t know we still talk. I don’t get it
Why does he want to keep me a secret for no reason. Could it be because I disrespected him?
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