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The PUA kind of books
I want to know if this is true:

"Here’s the deal, for us ugly men it’s perfectly okay that we are not running around acting like some extroverted alpha males because that doesn’t go with the woman’s frame of reality, and quite frankly it most likely doesn’t go with our reality either unless we’re of some sort of importance.

It’s actually best for us ugly men to seem nervous, or shy, or act like the girl is way out of our league. Acting cool is a bad idea.

When these girls see an ugly guy, they’re going to already have an idea in their heads of how that guy would act, and acting outside of that frame is only going to shatter her reality and overwhelm her, so if we’re shy, and can’t help but act shy, then THAT’S A GOOD THING because it’s congruent with what she’s expecting, so no alarms go off or anything.

We stay congruent to her frame. In her frame when she see’s us ugly men she’s expecting us to be shy, insecure, she thinks she would be a dream come true for us, she thinks we could never attract a girl as hot as her, heck, she thinks we could never attract a girl PERIOD."

Just your personal opinion, from experiences, or stories that you have been told from friends or family. This question is for both genders.

Girlfriend did something and lost my trust completely. I ended it after I found out. 4 days later I decided to give her another chance because we've dated for 4 years and I'd hate to throw that away without trying to make things work. I wanted a future with her and to marry her and her have my kids and she knew this. I told her no more fuck ups, this is it. If you love me as much as you say you do and want my trust back, prove it. Actions speak louder than words. Been back together for a month. New Years at my party she ended up making out with her bisexual female friend and told me 2 days after. I didn't care at first, but when she told me she said "it just happened". That's when I got mad, cause it could've just easily been another guy and she said "it just happened". The apparent reason for this was the bi girl was trying to get attention of another girl, and my girlfriend told me "alcohol did it" but yesterday told me she honestly was all there. She could of stopped it. Last Saturday we went to a bar/club. We met up with one of my friends and his 2 friends we didn't know. She was all over this guy who she thought was gay (whom I didn't think he was) holding his arm and walking with him. The other friend I saw her dancing with him and putting her ass to his crouch like 4 different occassions. Although, I ended up spilling a random girls drink cause I was dancing and bought her another with my girlfriend knowing. My girlfriend got mad about this. I just don't understand like if I'm giving you a second chance shouldn't you be on your best behavior? And she says "the kiss was with Dani it's not even like that", but if you're trying to build my trust why are you kissing someone in the first place? The thinking he's gay thing made me mad at first but I let go of it. But the dancing thing is ridiculous. Cause I had 2 different girls trying to dance with me and I turned them down. And this was with alcohol in my system. I'm tired of giving her chances when I don't think she deserves anymore