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My boyfriend consistently ditches me or is late. There's also a number of times he has lied to me. Yet he claims that I am not normal/weird for being upset. I will list a few examples.

1. This is the most frequent. Happens so often that when he tells me "I won't be late" or we make arrangements, I already know it's not going to happen. He sends me a message saying he's going out. Right then & there. This was not previously discussed. Then he ignores me. Often for over 6 hours until 2 am.
2. He went to Brazil last year for work. He told me he didn't intend to travel. On the 3rd day of being there, he sent a text saying he decided to travel, his boss said he could. He disappeared for an entire week. This was bad enough; a business trip turning into a leisure trip without him informing me of his whereabouts, no answers to messages, phone calls unanswered. About 4 months after this I saw on booking. com that he booked the hotels for various cities in Brazil BEFORE he even left. So this was planned. I. e. he lied about it having been a "spontaneous" idea.
3. He met up with some woman from the internet. He didn't tell me. He is adamant that he did but I know for sure he didn't. How do I know? Because we bumped into this woman and she yelled "you should have told me you have a girlfriend!". When we got home, there was a letter in the letterbox with several massage bottles from said woman claiming my boyfriend fucked her. My boyfriend says she's crazy. I want to believe him but he lied about her in the first place.
4. One night he was suposedly not feeling good and in bed. I remember the date of that night. Well, one day I was cleaning the apartment and found a receipt. It was for a bar, from that night, obviously consumption by more than one person. He claims it wasn't him, but it is his credit card number and it was in his apartment so yes... .

I strongly believe in abstinence before marriage if the ultimate goal of the relationship is MARRIAGE. A lot of women are just jumping into bed with men and later expecting them to call back. So many children have absent fathers, teen pregnency is on the rise, pre-marital sex is on the rise and fewer men want to get married. Do think women in America should hold men to higher standards?