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Am I using him for sex?
- I constantly talk about sex with him. I have little patience for other topics.
- I get annoyed and disappointed when he refuses to have sex with me. He says he doesn't want our relationship to be consumed by sex. And he doesn't want to lose me.
- I like getting him aroused.
- I think about sex constantly with him while he is thinking about kids and marriage. I freak out at this thought but he won't have any more sex with me if I told him the truth.
- I have feelings for him, but they make sex a whole lot better. That's why I say that I love him.

I started college not to long ago. I don't drink, I haven't gone to any parties and not sure if I will (it just doesn't seem very fun to me if I don't drink), and I'm a virgin and never had a boyfriend. (I'm not saving myself for marriage or anything, I just haven't had an opportunity to do it). I feel like all the guys only care about is getting with easy hot girls and hooking up at parties. I hear guys talk about getting laid all the time, and about which girls are the easiest to get with in our school.

i feel like because I'm not super promiscuous the guys at my college want nothing to do with me. It feels as if they think I am wasting their time when I talk to them. As if instead of talking to me, they could be trying to hit on another looser girl instead.
I honestly don't know if I'm attractive or not (I've been told I was attractive multiple times, but I feel like everyone gets told that) and I try to come off as friendly and kind (but of course I'm not perfect), and it just feels like no guys want to waste his time with me. It's a crummy feeling. Sorry I'm rambling now this has just been all pent up for awhile, and yes I know there are some guys who probably don't think like this, but it feels like everyone at my school (it's a very small school) do think like this.