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I turn 26 in a few months and I NEVER had a girlfriend. Seriously, I went all through middle school, high school, and even my traditional college-age years without having an official relationship.

Now I am in my mid-twenties and still don't have much luck.

I lost my virginity at 20 to a 16 year old young woman. We were both virgins, but she did not want a relationship with me. She was really a stranger to me and I drove to her state 7 hours away and we had sex. We only talked online for 2 months prior.

I was somewhat involved with another girl that age around that time, but we were only "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a week. It was awkward and she turned into a transgender dude not long after.

Yes. I made out with girls years ago, but none of them were in a relationship with me.

I only want a woman that had never had a romantic past, especially from her youth. This means no previous boyfriends or even male best friends she was close to growing up and had feelings for.

I basically am unable to get over a woman's romantic past.

I feel like I will live life alone.

since my high school days, all my male friends and relatives have been telling me that women who just want to fuck are never picky. that I should not worry about things like their personality, mental state, and many other things that you should worry about in dating because supposedly all they want to do is FUCK.

however not only does this sound too damn good to be true but I have met a lot of women who are completely the opposite of what I just said above. not only do so many women out there believe that sex is an automatic precursor to a relationship but. there are lots of women who do hookups but often times have ulterior motives. they will fuck all night with you but then want to cling on to you the following day and beyond. along the way, they will even feel entitled to get something out of you such as calling you nonstop whenever they feel needy all because you had sex with them. even worst they will even run to the authorities and file false rape alligations on you when they feel like you never met their demand.

till then I now double-check women twice or more before I ever get into a hookup thanks to what I've mentioned above. but I was wondering, am I still wrong? are my friends right?