Is normal that I pay lots of mind to hookups? almost as if it was a serious date?

Anonymous
since my high school days, all my male friends and relatives have been telling me that women who just want to fuck are never picky. that I should not worry about things like their personality, mental state, and many other things that you should worry about in dating because supposedly all they want to do is FUCK.

however not only does this sound too damn good to be true but I have met a lot of women who are completely the opposite of what I just said above. not only do so many women out there believe that sex is an automatic precursor to a relationship but. there are lots of women who do hookups but often times have ulterior motives. they will fuck all night with you but then want to cling on to you the following day and beyond. along the way, they will even feel entitled to get something out of you such as calling you nonstop whenever they feel needy all because you had sex with them. even worst they will even run to the authorities and file false rape alligations on you when they feel like you never met their demand.

till then I now double-check women twice or more before I ever get into a hookup thanks to what I've mentioned above. but I was wondering, am I still wrong? are my friends right?
Is normal that I pay lots of mind to hookups? almost as if it was a serious date?
yes, you're fine
no, you should listen to your friends
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Is normal that I pay lots of mind to hookups? almost as if it was a serious date?
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