Do you need to build a certain level of trust with someone before you sleep with them? Why?

[Trutention]

[Finchie40]

Not really , I use to think that way when I was younger but I realized what is the point. If someone wants to be honest with you they will be honest , if someone wants to lie to you? They will lie to you and suffer the consequences of their actions. I no longer waste my time playing investigator with a girl , if the chemistry and connection and attraction is there , that’s all that matters

[Lliam]

I think that's generally more true for women than men.

After all, a woman is getting penetrated. The guy is inside her body. And men are bigger and stronger. So a woman needs to trust that he won't hurt her.

Plus, a lot of people want/need an emotional connection with their sexual partner, and trust that they aren't just being used.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I need an emotional connection as well as deep trust before I ever get into bed with anyone, guy or girl. I need that because I just don't want to give it away without it meaning something. So far I've managed to live up to that philosophy.

[LaurenM1997]

Yes because then I’ll know then won’t fuck off after sex and stay with me

[LaurenM1997]

*they

[LaurenM1997]

I’ve never had that experience of having sex and having someone in bed as I would love to

[Trutention]

But sometime all I want is sex. I don’t need them to stay.

[LaurenM1997]

That’s fair enough

[OfMiceandMen]

Yes I do, not into one night flings or even in a week or so. Sleeping with someone is a very intimate thing and I have to know she's okay upstairs and it won't backfire to a certain degree,

[RebelinSteel]

I need an emotional connection and trust, just how I am

[LaurenM1997]

I agree me too

[sheikalana]

Absolutely. The reason why I don't like casual sex or ONS is because I don't feel safe enough. I'm only able to climax and truly enjoy the moment if I trust you and feel safe around you.

[DishLady]

Yeah... not just sleep with, but share with... Trust needs to be there first.

[MicahRaine]

Personally yes I do. I'm not going to have sex with anyone until we're working towards marriage 🤷‍♂️

[Raaj4you]

Yes, if you sleep with dangerous criminal or infected person then chances are he / she will kill you after the sex or rob you after the sex or infect you with deadly diseases like AIDS, etc.

[elizamichale1]

I don't think so... unless u r looking for something long term u don't need to

[laly520]

strong emotional bond, all levels of trust + marriage

[padrepiedra777]

The union that occurs when people have sex is underestimated in our culture. In my opinion, you don't just need trust, you need commitment.

[PapaJedi]

When I was younger, yes. Now I am old I don't have time for that. I need a wife.

[PapaJedi]

Clarification: when I was younger, no. Now, yes

[FuqUFggt]

I don't trust anyone. I have to build a certain level of meaning before I perform like a circus seal to get them off

[Staximus]

Yes, I didn't in the past and that didn't go so well

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Not really if they are letting you get naked and fuck each other ⁰they're going to be able to trust you with the agreement 💯

[Twalli]

It's a matter of respect for the fact that sex is an extremely intimate act.

[moneymagnet24]

Nope idc about trust i believe in fuck n forget policy..

[Anonymous]

No.. if its only sex.

For a relationship then yes

[exitseven]

I do. i would not jump into bed with just anyone.

[Jennz6]

For a relationship yes

[DrPepper12]

Not really. Sex is sex.

[12karen]

Yes, ofc, they can kill me during my sleep

[Tstrbrainer]

Nope