How much do you trust your partner? Have they ever given you a reason not to?

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If so, how?

Lynnfriend · Accepted Answer

On a scale of 1-10 10 being the highest, about a 3 the reason for this is because of stuff I have seen on his phone. We were in along distance relationship for almost a year and are now living together. He was in Spokane for the whole time we were apart and during that time he did nothing. I would have thought he would at least get a job but he didn't. When we would talk he would talk of being together but he was making no effort to get there, I got a job right away now we have been living together in Spokane for a year and a half he still has not even looked for a job or rarely talks about it I have been working.

I work nights from 6:00pm - 4:30 am and I like to call him sometimes when I get lonely for him. I looked at his phone and he watches a lot of porn and masterbates. When I first got here I saw on his phone that he had sent dick pics to 3 girls on messenger and told one of them that he was going over there ( the other side of the mountains) and he was excited because he was going to eat her pussy. He explained he was just telling her that because he was lonely and bored he wasn't really going to even see her. When I try to call him I can't because it say my call cannot be completed at this time because it's be forwarded to many. He has his phone set up that way or he has my number blocked which he denies. He turns his green dot off on messenger so I can't see when he is online.

When I look at the history on his phone it has all kinds of porn site , dating sites and online chat site with nude girls live on web cam web cam but when I try to talk with him about it he gets mad and defensive and says he didn't do it he may have accidentally bumped. Now he is trying to pressure me into buying a motor home for us to live in. I a afraid and stuck I cannot move forward with him because I can't trust him and after writing this I take it back from a 3 to a 0 and that's not even on the scale.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

I completely trust him and he's never given me a reason not to.

Jhunitor · Accepted Answer

I trust no one. I live my life knowing anyone can betray me. I don't act on this knowledge. But keeping this is mind will help me not being delusional (trying to justify her suspicious actions instead of seeing them as sign than she cheats) and allow me to react quickly, decisively and rationally.

Fuentes · Accepted Answer

If she's with me then I would easily trust her cause I don't wife nothing just because so she woulda been fully vetted & she's OK with how I am in a relationship, then it would be easy cause she should know if she cheat I'm out and she blocked lol

SnowedIn · Answer

Absolutely 100% unconditional trust. She's never given me a reason not to.

How? I don't have her passwords. I don't ask where she's going. I don't question who her friends are or what she's doing with them, him, or her. She's welcome to do what she wants to do, with whom she wants, when she wants.

We share a lot of that stuff with each other anyway but that's because we're informing or we care, not because we're keeping tabs on each other.

admles · Answer

Completely.

Never given me a reason not to.

I've never gone through her phone or her computer, because I trust her. I could, as I have the PIN, but never had any reason to, and she is the same with me.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

I completely trust my boyfriend because he's never given me any signs or reasons I shouldn't trust him

AsaKyo · Answer

Never trust another person too much or they might just kick you in the crotch and rob you someday

Agape93 · Answer

Enough to not worry.  If she gave me a reason to doubt her, she wouldn't be my partner anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't trust her if she was the last woman on earth or the last person on earth. I wouldn't trust her as far as i could throw her (it's an expression by the way not to be taken literally)

EmmaMary · Answer

Absolutely 100%... Period.

slatyb · Answer

Completely, never a doubt.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I trust him 100% with the important things.

tfan1 · Answer

I trust my wife 100%. ❤️👍😃

Sparkie460 · Answer

We both trust each other 110%.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll tell you once i get one.

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