Do you trust your partner a 100 percent or do you assume they can be up to no good behind your back?

[Finchie40]

Like how would you feel if you found out your partner was secretly talking to the opposite sex behind your back , even though they might not be physically cheating but in a sense they are cheating? I talk to other girl’s behind my GF’s back and I keep it a secret because I don’t want her being hurt by it , even though I know it’s wrong I just know in myself I am not going to physically cheat on her I just like talking , part of me feels at times she is doing the same thing and keeping it a secret from me to not to hurt my feelings , It’s something that crosses my mind and that I just accept it considering we all carry these ducking cell phones around , or is it that I am just being insecure? , Has this ever crossed your mind about your partner?

[Emerald55346]

Lol you already could guess my answer to this, for a relationship to be at its best there needs to be complete transparency especially when it comes to the opposite sex.

[Finchie40]

The crazy thing is my girlfriend has been more loving to me these past few weeks and it has been awesome but part of me still feels like she is eventually going to get bored of it and start treating me like shit again , She has put me through this Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde shit to many times to the point I don’t really know what to think, Like how does someone go from being distant and mean to you to all of a sudden being loving and sweet to you? It kind of makes you wonder if they did something they regretted , I am honestly not trying to think to much about it but the question is still floating there? I am enjoying her love for me so i don’t want to ruin it , I am just going with the flow and taking it as it comes , and not trying to over analyze things in my head even though it’s hard for me not to do since I been burned before. I just keep telling myself if she did do something she regrets then that’s something she has to live with knowing she was a piece of shit , she claims she never cheated on me , but little does she realize even though she might of not physically cheated on me , she cheated on me by being distant and mean to me and with holding sex and affection from me to me that is cheating as well in a relationship, The crazy thing is , there use to be a time This shit never crossed my mind , but when you been burned multiple times it’s hard to fully trust , and I hate that I am this way now

[Juxtapose]

I am bisexual so restricting which gender I talk to is pretty fucking pointless and it makes me laugh at how straight people conduct themselves concerning the opposite sex. You guys really don't trust yourselves or your lovers do you?

[exitseven]

I know she has a couple of friends and I have no problem with it.

[Finchie40]

Guy friends?

[exitseven]

one of them is a guy.

[EmmaMary]

I totally trust my husband implicitly. Period.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[JaxiCats]

I trust that he won’t cheat on me but I’m learning to trust him with my negative emotions

[Anonymous]

I don't trust any woman 100%. No matter how good she may seem, she will always be a woman still.