What level of trust you think is appropriate and needed in a serious relationship or marriage and why?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Full 100% trust til proven otherwise.

Moderate trust.

Low trust.

No trust.

[rtj1211]

How can you call it a 'relationship' without trust?

How can you bring children into the world if you don't trust your partner? You need to know you can trust your children's lives to the care of your partner at the times when you are unavoidably or by choice absent.

How can you commit to a monogamous relationship if your partner is out screwing the town whores?

Why would you WANT to be in a relationship if you worried they would steal your money, your valuables? You need to have a high level of trust as to their honesty.

If you can't trust your partner on the things that matter, then why are they your partner?

[Guy13]

All-in but with caution as people age fallen with hidden thoughts, idea, and constantly exposed to abnormalities as if it is Normal. Biblical souls makes life walk understandings, and relational growth easier…at least for me easier.

[lilyanony1]

I don't really trust a lot of people and tbh there's reason for that...
I work very hard for all I have, making tons of sacrifices.
But I never complain.
Others see it as a situation whereby they can exploit.
You need a partner who looks beyond the superficial and sees your heart. That values the qualities you possess and isn't prepared to mess that up.
Unfortunately the modern mentality of people makes that hard so I offer moderate trust and the moment they start disrespecting or disregarding me it goes down...
Until I have no trust left.

[sage2021]

Trust between two people in a serious relationship together (marriage, living together) must be 100%!! And it should remain that way until one of you cheats on the other one. Then the trust is broken and I believe you cannot ever trust that person again. It's game over!

[iiyuizx]

you should never give 100% of your trust to someone no matter who they are and how much they matter to you because you never know if they are trustworthy or not. and when you give them all their trust and they end up disappointing you, you will be at your lowest trying to figure out a way to move on from that disappointment. it will only cause you trust issues.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I can't befriend someone who I dont have a reasonably high level of trust. I am disdainfully intolerant of liars, manipulators, and of unreliable people. More so if any of those people are narcissistic and " entitled ".

[Anonymous]

When you enter into a marriage you have known this person for some time. You have same religious backgrounds. Strong ethics, moral character. Similar likes and dislikes. Their dreams become your dreams. Learn to be dependent upon the other person. Have a loving relationship and communications.

[ConspiracyTheorist]

I was a fool and had 100% trust in my ex wife and that was shattered and never fully came back but it would build a little and then more lies and more bullshit down to 0% and I left her

[CuriousMufuxka]

Ludicrous speed 100% no bullshit trust! Not gonna happen, but I feel if both parties are going to go the distance (However long that may be) Trust should be automatic. There's plenty of other obstacles in the way.

[Anonymous]

Moderate trust. You can't have 100%, that's unrealistic.

[Anonymous]

You need to at least appear to have full trust in your partner. I never fully trust anyone. But I generally don't let on that with people.

[midnightmoon05]

A. That’s what we have in our marriage.

[jimmy2]

Best have trust or the marriage fails