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i’ve been friends with this guy for about 5 years, i was attracted to him as soon as he transferred to my school but he hadn’t noticed me. The same day he transferred a few others had too, his future girlfriend and i became friends that same year as well.

Throughout that year i really didn’t have any close friends and she didn’t either so i felt like we kinda leaned on each other and we were inseparable. The 2 people dated for a year until the girl left for another country and they spent about 4 more years dating long distance. They were a big deal at my school, everyone shipped them and they had accounts together. They broke up 2 months ago.

The thing is that the guy is now interested in me (i have a spy on the inside that has told me so) and i don’t know what to do. I’m attracted to him but then there’s also this past relationship with the girl. Even though the girl and I don’t actively talk at all and to be honest i didn’t really like her before, we were still friends and she still talks to me when it’s my birthday, my grad, tells me she misses me and just basic catching up things. I don’t know what to do!

It all started at a party. His ex girlfriend was there and it was my first time meeting her. They broke up on good terms so they're still friends.

I thought it would be okay to meet her but I was wrong. She was so pretty and kind. It made me insecure. He didn't even acknowledge my presence at the party and hung out with her the whole time. I got annoyed and left the place. He didn't even care to drop a text to ask where I was or if I was okay.

I was deeply hurt by this and decided to confront him but before I could, he came back to me and acted like everything was perfectly fine.

I let it slide once but now he added me in a group chat with all his friends. They're mostly girls who he talks to me about all the te about how cool they are and how I should be like them. I really don't understand him. Does he even love me?