I told my ex boyfriend's new girlfriend that he has genital herpes and that she should get tested?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex in Nov 2020 because he was two timing. He tried for 4 months to get me back and I was hesitant but we agreed to be friends. We had a good run and i feel like we were heading somewhere, although he would always try to have sex with me.
Nonetheless, I never gave in.. fast forward he came clean to me about his hsv2 diagnosis and said its the reason he committed to the new girl because he felt like he ruined her life and that she was a nice decent church girl and did not deserve that although he did not disclose to her. Unfortunately I found out his whole thing was fake and he was looking for sympathy and that they were very deep into a relationship. So I got mad that he lied and pretended to me and so I messaged her on fb to let her know that a. he lies , b. he cheats. c. she should get tested for hsv2. Funny thing is I didn't realise how much I would miss our friendship, anyways he threatened to sue me and insisted that i forget he ever existed, so i pushed him to block me and he blocked me on everything ( whatsapp, instagram and fb). I do however, miss our friendship and after i did this i realise i do not want him as a partner but i valued him more as a friend. Do you think I should call and apologise for what i have done, or that he will come back or he's gone for good?

[caring__1]

It's time to move on. Apologizing won't change anything, and he hasn't been much of a friend, other than in your head.

As far as telling his girlfriend to get tested, doctors probably won't test her, as unless there is an open sore to swab, pretty much everyone will test positive for herpes. The test is pretty useless. An open sore can be tested to determine if it is HSV1 or HSV2. The two don't stay only in one location. There is no cure, but there are ways to reduce the likelihood of spreading it.

[Asker]

Thank you

[caring__1]

You're welcome.

[Interstate]

After everything he did, you owe him no apologies. And you did the right thing about telling her she should get tested. He never would have, and by the time she recognized any symptoms, it would have been too late for her. Yes it is o. k to miss him for the good times you had, but don't wish him back. If their relationship is this deep, I would say he is gone for good, and you should be grateful for that. Otherwise, had you two lasted forever, he would have taken you down BIG TIME.

[pink_and_inlove]

Nah you have nothing to apologize for the new girl should learn what kind of a person he is she has a right to know what she’s getting into

[SnakeBoop]

Erm no. Girl. get some self worth and respect for yourself. PLEASE.

[msc545]

I think you should make up your mind about what you want with him, and try to be true to that if you can. If you cannot, you need to remove him from your life permanently. Your ambivalence in this whole thing made me dizzy just reading about it, so I can imagine how confusing it is for you.

[Asker]

Thank you for being honest

[msc545]

Best of luck in this situation.

[Rudon00]

I think I remember you mentioned this story to me. you mentioned friendship you missed the most concerning him , right?

But what friendship is there if he is not being honest with you concerning the little details in his life. Much less to qualify him as a partner.

[Luckycharms12]

He a cheat and lies. Is that really guy you want be with

[Asker]

I don't but i miss his friendship and the favors he does for me

[justlookin69]

Friendship? Nah! End it and let bygones be bygones. He seems sketchy so best to move your own way and find a new friend.

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

stop before you get yourself into serious trouble. It's like you have no fear, what is wrong with you.

[Yourfriend2021]

Forget about this guy, cheaters are liars.

[Omario2049]

You petty girl🤦🏾‍♂️

[Pterodon]

He’s gone for good

[In_Trance]

pathetic