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I was sexually abused by my mother. I was raised by my grandparents.

But i wanted to take a girl I've been dating to the neighborhood where I grew up. I wanted to show her my childhood home. This is not where I was abused. My mother is from a different state.

She said that she won't judge where I grew up then acted hesitant about wanting to go. She said that she moved around and lived a lot of places growing up. I asked about it in bed but she said it was her own insecurity issue.

I feel not wanting to see where your lover grew up is strange. Is it a sign her feelings for me a not a deep love connection?

Based on the examples below... is this woman Love Bombing or Showing Genuine Affection?

The past 3 weeks I have been dating a 33 year old woman who has shown a very strong interest in me from the very beginning.

Examples include:

-Texting me every morning to say hello or wish me the best on my day
-Cooking me meals when I spent the night at her place
-Giving me a gift of Christmas Holiday 2020 after she went to Mexico to see a relative
-Asking if I wanted to go to Mexico with her for Christmas to see her relative after just 3 dates
-Suggesting that I get a passport and request time off during the summer to go vacation with her in another country
-Talking about me to her brother and her mother
-Saying, "I had dinner with this special guy..." in conversation with her mother while I was in the other room
-Whispering that she wanted to marry me when we were having sex (she felt embarrassed and denied it. She has not said explicitly that she loves me)
-Continuously saying that she loves me
-Sending me left overs of food that she has made upon leaving her place
-Now she is asking to have a drinks with me for a New Years Resolution goals retreat (yes, apparently she wants to play music with posted notes and markers and have us write out our goals for the year. Apparently, she feels better doing it with me?)

Incidents:

-She can speak in a condescending tone to me (she apologizes when I call her out on it)
-She says that she likes to be alone in relationships/but then says she misses me
-She is willing to go away to another country for 3 months for ESL teaching contracts/but when she is away she is messaging me non stop with pictures saying she misses me
-She does not always refuse sex but sometimes
-She has some concerns that I am hypersexual because I pleasure myself twice a day. She fears she can't satisfy me enough