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I really dislike kids since they are loud and smell like vomit (no offense) and I never want one for myself, but the problem is most of my exes love kids and they want to have a little one for their own. Before us dating I always talk about how taking care of myself is already a chore and children would be the worst idea ever and I don't think anyone is qualified or mentally stable enough to be a parent.
But the problem is they would bring up having kids one way or another, and the problem is they WANT CHILDREN but they always want me to CARRY (yes I'm a lesbian and I only date women) and when I say how I don't think we should reproduce anymore since there are orphans who need loving homes and the fact that the world is already heavily overpopulated plus getting pregnant is the last thing I want to happen to me (I would rather die) then they would suggest adopting, but the problem is I don't like children and I don't want to be a parent. Finding people who don't ever want kids is super hard and the ones who I think share the same idea with me end up being the opposite and they thought they could get me to change my mind. And yes we broke up and I'm glad we did.
How do you usually deal with this type of situation? And if you yourself don't want kids, would you date someone who does? And if you want kids in the future, would you date someone who doesn't ever want kids?

Let’s say you take your partner to go meet your mom or dad, and they didn’t like them. Let’s say they wanted you to separate. Would you take their word for it and end your relationship, or would you fight for the dignity of your partner?


im asking this because I am nervous for my boyfriend to meet my parents, as they are rather strict about who I date.😣

anyways, how would you react?

I know I am tired of being single and a lot of you are too (as I see your posts all the time on here). Also I'm ready to give up on these dating apps that seem more interested in keeping me single so they can keep taking my money. So I'm wondering if there was a place specifically for us if anyone else would bother showing up to it? I have driven out to Washington a few times since my Mom moved out there; and I've seen a lot of land in Wyoming for cheap along I-80. Don't know if it would be there, but the availability of it got me thinking of the possibilities. Maybe start out with a week long camping retreat; as we develop the land for a semi-self sufficient community. Also would any of you be willing to help fund such an endeavor? I know I couldn't afford it myself as I am not independently wealthy, yet. However, I would rather invest $30/month on supporting a community that accepts me; than waste it trying to get a date on a site that takes my money and maybe gets me a like and occasional message, but never an actual date. For those of you who don't have this problem could you leave your comments to the logistical aspects of this idea, please?

Note: I know I put it in my poll but there is currently no Go Fund me campaign for this; I'm just trying to measure the interest for this idea at this point.