Would you rather date someone a lot like you or someone who is your total opposite?

[angiebangie]

I'd rather have a guy whose my total opposite. I'm not very chill, and I love levelheaded guys.

Someone whose got a lot of my own personality traits so we can relate

Someone who is my total opposite. We'll get along better and learn from each other

[Flower7]

I'd rather date the person that I have the most in common with. I keep hearing people say "opposites attract", but I believe that similarities attract also. And they come with less arguments and disagreements than differences do. It gives a good base for getting along with someone when both people are more on the same page.

[Secret6620]

My total opposite... I want to be introduced to new and exciting things...

[angiebangie]

Me too

[Secret6620]

YAY 🙋 Thanks for most helpful girl 🦋

[angiebangie]

Np! :)

[Metlahaed]

It's pretty well established that opposites actually do not attract on average, and lasting relationships are based on a common core belief system.

[angiebangie]

Interesting! Its true that my dating past is filled with guys who share a lot in common with me... but at the same time they manage to be nothing like me personality wise

[888theGreat]

A like , different won't work

[angiebangie]

Interesting! Are you more of a strong personality or laid back?

[888theGreat]

You tell me from my posts on here what you think

[angiebangie]

Heheh! Strong!

[nodnol32]

I've dated girls with not much in common before, it didn't end well but I am best friends with one of them. My current girlfriend seems to have a lot in common with me.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Someone whose got a lot of my own personality traits so we can relate

[Wizzbang]

Someone who is outgoing and who will help me get out of my shell

[Smirnoff23]

Being the same would be boring

[angiebangie]

That's what I think!