So long story short this neighbour of mine who also happens to be a family friend had been chasing me for about a year before I agreed to a date.
We began seeing each other , and it was going well, until I slept with him.
In the moment, he got rather umm excited and we didn’t use protection. He did however pull out. Afterwards, he got super anxious about not having worn any protection even though he pulled out and tried to manipulate me into taking the morning after pill. I did not want to, as my period was due soon and he assured me pulled out soon enough. Plus, I’d taken plan b before and had a very bad reaction which resulted in severe depression and severe acne so I was too scared to take it. He spent the rest of the evening in a sulk because I didn’t agree to take it.
The next day he was messaging me saying he’d had a great time and asking how I was ad stuff, so i thought we were over it.
However, when I initiated hanging out again, he totally ghosted me...
Any ideas why this has happened?
He seemed super into me before, and we waited a good 3 weeks before having sex after we started dating so I don’t feel it was too soon. Plus the sex was good and I could tell he enjoyed it. by the way I am 23 , he is 26.
We began seeing each other , and it was going well, until I slept with him.
In the moment, he got rather umm excited and we didn’t use protection. He did however pull out. Afterwards, he got super anxious about not having worn any protection even though he pulled out and tried to manipulate me into taking the morning after pill. I did not want to, as my period was due soon and he assured me pulled out soon enough. Plus, I’d taken plan b before and had a very bad reaction which resulted in severe depression and severe acne so I was too scared to take it. He spent the rest of the evening in a sulk because I didn’t agree to take it.
The next day he was messaging me saying he’d had a great time and asking how I was ad stuff, so i thought we were over it.
However, when I initiated hanging out again, he totally ghosted me...
Any ideas why this has happened?
He seemed super into me before, and we waited a good 3 weeks before having sex after we started dating so I don’t feel it was too soon. Plus the sex was good and I could tell he enjoyed it. by the way I am 23 , he is 26.
