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My friend of 10 years blocked me. She asked me to hang out with her but she has a habit of only spending an hour and then leaving.

Me: Hey hun, just a reminder to please advise if you are only hanging out for an hour or two, just because Eastland is far for me to get to and there is no point in me getting there if we are just hanging out for a short time.

Her: It isn't easy for me to arrange anything locally (she doesn't have a car). Are you happy to do dinner one weekend?

Me: Yeah sure. But please just next time if you are only planning to spend an hour , let me know so I can make other plans.

Her: For clarity, lunch is usually an hour. Have a good weekend.

THIs is when I got really snippy, I knew she was throwing shade.

Me : For clarity to you too, I specifically said that I won't be going out anywhere if only for an hour. Don't bother inviting me anywhere if this is the case. It isn't fair. I thought you originally wanted to look at dresses. So do not get snippy with me! I was not confused in the least.

Her: like I said, sorry about the confusion. Hope your weekend has not been ruined.

Me: No it hasn't been ruined. Again I Am not confused. Stop being rude. And you can look for another maid of honor. I am done.

Her: I didn't mean that as an attack. I was confused at the length of time it was to hang out. My mistake which is why I apologised for the confusion. You don't have to be my maid of honor, I won't force you.

Me: I think you were confused yourself. I took a lot of crap from you over the years which I tolerated because I valued your friendship. But now, I Had enough. Good luck on your wedding.

Her: Forgive me for thinking you were my close friend and thanks for disillusioning me.

Me : Oh really? You're playing victim? You don't know the meaning of friendship! You are spoiled, rude and only nice when convenient! I am glad I saw your true face!

Then she blocked me.

Was I wrong?

Since I was young my family never trust me even if I have been a good daughter. I studied hard, graduate honors and even have good jobs.

Since I was young, my family prohibited me going out especially late at night. And, whenever I do they always yelled at me and worst my dad beat me up and have major bruises. I grow very shy person because they never expose me to people.

I never had boyfriend of my entire life due to my family strictness until such time I met foreign man. I know he really loves me but he had an international historical record of stealing money 5 years ago. When my learned about it, they immediately destroyed our relationship and even if I told them not to touch him. They ask cops to arrest him for such crime. They even want to make false accusations such as raping which is not true. But I didn't support to them and that makes them more mad at me.
My innocent best friend was also scolded by my family and they destroyed our friendship.

My family is now getting worse. They grounded me , destroyed my door, steal my computer and cellphone and spying all my messages, I cannot go out at house and making Me like a Maid. They have invaded my personal privacy. Even if I stop meeting my boyfriend, they don't believe in me and worst they want me to stop working. I don't want to stop working because this is only my source of income and to be honest I can really live alone. They already destroyed everything my relationship, friendship and now my work?

If I leave home, my foreign boyfriend dont have anymore money and I am afraid my dad will ask for arrest him or worst kill him. That is why I allowed myself being disrespected by my own family.

If I leave I was also thinking about my boyfriend. What If my family would ask police to arrest or kill him. Especially that he don't have any place to transfer because he don't have money.

What should I do?, please advise