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this is what I think:
women: are trying to be men these days. Their focus of having their own career can be damagaing. Too many promiscuous women, lot of women using men.
men: many are lost and are almost told that many masculine things are bad. There’s a lot of male damaging things/habits a guy can do too.

The best relationship dynamic is when the man and woman are kind of working together, supporting each other to achieve a similar goal. Instead of competing against each other. It’s usually the man’s role to create a path in his life and his girl then follow in his life. It’s kind of biology.

Nowadays we’re fucking with biology. Men should be the ones hunting/working while women are more nuturing to the family.
Why do I feel bad in saying this? It’s true. Divorces are just increasing and increasing.

What made you lose your faith? If you had previously believed in and practiced a religion regardless of what it was - but then you later on stopped believing in it, what influenced it?

Don't just say "I realized it was all a bunch of stupid fairy tales". How and why did you come to that conclusion? Was there a specific event or series of events? Here are some things for consideration...

• Was it scandal, hypocrisy, and corruption among the ministers or your coreligionists? Was it the past sins of or evils committed by it? Was it the presence of seemingly unchecked evil in the world?
• Were you pressured by friends or family members? Was it the loss of a friend or family member (death, separation, divorce, "falling out", etc.)?
• Were you overwhelmed by personal sins of which you felt you couldn't be forgiven? Did you simply not understand your faith? Were you poorly educated on it?
• Did you ask for something in prayer, but it was not granted to you?
• Did you become too busy with work or school? Was it leaving your home environment for the first time and not having the same community or support system that you had before?
• Were you upset because it wouldn't embrace your view of the culture ("get with the times", "modernize", etc.)?
• Did its texts contradict itself, nature, etc?

These are the answers I'm looking for here. So, what made you lose your faith?

Before you vote. You need to understand. I was once highly attractive around age 7-14 I would go to places with my dad to pick up pizza and older hot females (college) would say "I love his eyes. How old is he? Bring him to me when he turns 18."
Seriously. I swear to God this a true story.
Anyway, what happened was my dad cheated on my mom and they divorced. My dad started using drugs and threw his life away. I became severely depressed in life. I loved my dad. I lost motivation. Girls stopped complimenting me once I became a freshmen in HS (I was depressed and girls could sense that). I basically was now ugly that quick. My glow was gone. I don't know if depression ruined my looks but something did. I used to be so attractive back then. I once got to experience what it was like being attractive. I was hit on by girls left and right. Complimented repeatedly by females everywhere. Girls would stare at me and then I'd stare back and she'd smile and I'd smile back while maintaining eye contact (flirting). This happened to me a lot back then.

Now, I am in my 20s and I realize the difference. I am no longer complimented not even by family members. I look at myself in the mirror and I see someone who is average but I am biased because that person is me. I am not fat and ugly. I have an average body type.
In conclusion, that's how you know as a guy if you are attractive because you will be complimented at high rates and flirted with. Am I wrong?