Search Results: do people have the right not to be judged

The internet is full of questions about the sexual past of a partner. In most of this question there is a guy or girl suffers under the sexual experiences of their mate. Most times these girl and guys who suffer are being called immature and insecure and they are probably right with it. But the thing that made me wonder is: why do people always say that the past is the past and that they shouldn't be judged for it?

I mean people are always being judged for their appearance they are born with and can't really change that much but judging someone for their actions and decisions, the only thing someone has truly control over, is wrong?

I understand that judging someone harshly for a one time mistake or a two time mistake is too much but judging someone for a longtime behaviour should br perfectly fine.

I know, no one wants to be judged but you shouldn't think that everyone will accept you.

So if someone won't date you or won't want anything to do with you then goddamn its not his fault but its the result of your past decisions and it doesn't mean that you are not good but it only means that you are not good enough for someone else and thats perfectly fine.

Its annoying to hesr people say its the past. Only idiots could think so, how naive can someone be that they think there aren't any consequences for their past

Its now not only about sexual past but about past generally. Its just that it annoys me how woman cry if a guy dont want to kiss their promiscious ass or if a promiscious guy cries when no virgin wants to do anything with him.